Pouring salt in an open wound. What a pitiful jerk. You're much better without that in your life, find someone who appreciates you and find another group to join.

Hello all, OP here. This took place over a year ago, but this is the first time I'm comfortable about posting it. I met this guy through work (my first serious boyfriend) and had been dating for four months when he first mentioned the group and encouraged me to volunteer. I didn’t know his position in it until a year later, when this happens. The main group is small, most of whom are on the board and are close-knit friends. After a long meeting, six of us go out for drinks together. The others had broken off into their own conversations and I asked my then-boyfriend if he wanted to meet more of my friends, he ignores me, I ask him why he’s being grumpy, he says “We’re done” and walks away. (He told me later that he felt that conversation should’ve been had at a different time and he felt I was nagging him.) The other four tell me that “he’s only angry/drunk, he didn’t mean it, give him a couple weeks to cool off,”etc. and told me to go away since I was ruining their good time. My ex leaves the second his tab is paid. A female volunteer/friend pitied me enough to drive me home, since I lived the furthest out and drove alone. The next day at work, I get a text from him saying I’m "no longer welcome" at the group. I texted the others about this and all I get is “since he requested it, I have to honor it”. I get ahold of the chairman (who knew nothing about the ban) and he told me that he’d talk to his vice chair. Nothing follows. I wanted to do something more about it, but it wasn’t worth the headache. If anything I wanted to see if there was a legitimate reason or him being a spiteful dick. I want to say that this was a one-time reaction, but that’d be a lie. It was like I was dating a stereotypical pregnant woman. Now, I’m prepping for graduation from college and am working too much for me to consider dating someone now. It wouldn’t be fair to the guy I date.

Post something on-line about him having a small dick and he was afraid you'd tell - revenge is a dish best served cold...

sounds like a total dick to me you should just be glad you won't have to deal with him anymore

Regardless of the reason for breaking up, dumping someone while they're drunk and leaving them alone is a terrible thing to do. Hopefully you'll find another group and a better guy.

I got dumped by a volunteer organization I'd been with for six years because I found it difficult to contain my shock when my cousin, who had been my best friend and slept with my husband, joined and I asked her "wasn't my husband enough?" People can suck, but on the upside once you know that you can make room for people who don't x

What a jerk

I got terminated from my volunteering from a hospital after 3 years because I used the bus for transport and the buses went on strike for a week but my chair told me its fine that I can wait until the strike is over. One week later a day before my scheduled day to come in, I get a letter for termination for being absent far too long. They wanted me to pay for membership and everything again if I wanted to return..

I'm sorry that he was such a dick OP

Move on life will get better