By Sad nerd - 05/01/2013 17:09 - United Kingdom - Ringwood

Today, I got an offer to study at a good university. My father has been pushing me to apply for years, so I ecstatically broke the news. Instead of congratulating me, he just grunted and delivered the more important news that he's divorcing my mum. Moment ruined. FML
I agree, your life sucks 27 271
You deserved it 1 871

Same thing different taste

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What a great way to ruin a moment... I'd flip

Congratulations OP. Hang in there, and don't let their problems over shadow your success!

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Being a senior in high school myself, I can sympathize with you. Sorry op

What does you being a senior have to do with OP and her parents getting divorced?

I think 12 means that since he is a senior in high school, he knows the pressure of applications and stuff like that.

He shouldn't have stolen your moment. I wouldve said something like "maybe he needed a shoulder" but considering he "grunted", I got that he was being an ass so nevermind. Congratulations though and I'm sorry about the divorce.

I don't know if ops dad was trying to steal ops moment. Divorce is heart shattering and depressing. I think this was a case of bad timing because any other day if op would've brought the news of their acceptance into college then their father would be ecstatic (I'm assuming). The news of divorce took precedent over ops achievement and hopefully ops father will come around to congratulating op. Either way op I'm sorry for your parents divorce and congratulations on your acceptance.

When my parents decided to get a divorce, they had my brother and I sit down so they could tell us softly, not just throw it out there like it was no big deal.

When my parents got divorced they decided to handle it like adults and tried not to put extra stress on the children. I understand depression but he shouldve replaced it with happiness for.his child..wouldve made him feel.better being happy...

Sorry about the divorce :/ it wasn't cool of your dad to break the news to you like that.

xoxolifesucks 8

If I had a nickel for everytime that happened to me...

You'd be a nickelaire. No wait, you would owe me a nickel.

OhDearBetrayal 25

25- Not if her dad is Hugh Hefner.

DarkJediLove 19

If The Count of Monte Cristo taught me anything it is that the best revenge comes from education!

He taught me that ham, Swiss cheese, raspberry jam and buttery puff pastry are excellent together.

onorexveritas 23

Don't let the bastard ruin your moment. Tell him not to be pissed at at your mum. She only slept with the dean because you didn't have enough special electives to make you a good candidate. Tell him if he would have spent more time helping you with your entrance exams none of this would have hapened.

Your dad was probably feeling absolutely awful at the time. Even if they had seen a divorce coming, it's still something else when the words are said and it's really being done. Do you really find it weird that he couldn't be happy for you then and didn't congratulate you? I would be more upset about my parents getting a divorce and my dad obviously feeling terrible about it than the moment being ruined. You can celebrate your acceptance later.

Seriously, what is it with mean dads in England this weekend? FYL dude. Love from Manchester x