By Username - 20/07/2010 04:57 - France

Today, I had the rehearsal for two of my friends' wedding. My ex-husband is also in the wedding, and I just found out we have to walk down the aisle together 'for height reasons'. FML
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heretonever 0

I don't know why people are being so harsh to the op. She's obviously putting up with it and not complaining to her friends because she knows its their day and doesn't want to ruin it. But that doesn't mean it doesn't suck, thats why she's just complaining on here. Yeah, its unfair of her friends to do that. Its not just about a few minutes walking, its also the fact that they are walking down the aisle together, which is bound to bring up shitty memories of their marriage, and like other people said, they will probably have to spend more time than that together. The fact she's complaining at all says that she obviously has enough issues with her ex that its really not going to be a pleasant experience. And yeah, its not her place to complain, and she isn't (to her friends), but they should've been at least a little considerate. I've never understood why people seem to think getting married gives people an excuse to do whatever they want without consideration for others.

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RobotStrut 7

Ohhh God, that really is awful, haha. At least it will give you time to make amends? Hahaha!

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heretonever 0

Prima Donna. Don't want to be a douche about it, but felt you should know thats what it is

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AGGoddess 2

I do think it was insensitive of your friends to put you in that position, but I think you may be over-reacting a bit. It's only 15 seconds or so, and if you're so unhappy about this, don't do it.

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heretonever 0

I don't know why people are being so harsh to the op. She's obviously putting up with it and not complaining to her friends because she knows its their day and doesn't want to ruin it. But that doesn't mean it doesn't suck, thats why she's just complaining on here. Yeah, its unfair of her friends to do that. Its not just about a few minutes walking, its also the fact that they are walking down the aisle together, which is bound to bring up shitty memories of their marriage, and like other people said, they will probably have to spend more time than that together. The fact she's complaining at all says that she obviously has enough issues with her ex that its really not going to be a pleasant experience. And yeah, its not her place to complain, and she isn't (to her friends), but they should've been at least a little considerate. I've never understood why people seem to think getting married gives people an excuse to do whatever they want without consideration for others.

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spartan_girl 0

I agree- I think the OP is in a difficult position. Obviously it's bothering her, and it sounds like she even said something to bride, unless the bride just randomly stated that they were lining up by height. It's not like that's impossible, but I'm thinking the bride knows that OP (and probably her ex) are uncomfortable with the situation. And a bride should not ask any of her friends to do something they are uncomfortable with, just to fit her perfect vision. (I'm sure there are exceptions, like if her sister is "uncomfortable" in dresses or something, but you get my point) I got married last summer, and I honestly don't understand what bridezillas are thinking in some cases- yes, I lined my wedding party up by height-though all of the bridesmaids were pretty much the same height, and the men were all different, and much taller than the women, but who cares? It's your wedding day! No one cares if the people standing next to you are all lined up perfectly, if they came to your wedding they came because they want to see you and your fiance start the rest of your lives together, because they care about/love at least one of you. I guess there are also a lot of people who don't care about the institution of marriage anymore, and maybe some of the bridezillas (SOME) are in that camp too and care more about the wedding than the marriage.

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Cinn_fml 22

I hope people bothered to read these two posts, because you guys (heretonever and spartan_girl) talk a lot of sense.

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onnielief 4

Not a big deal, he is your ex, what did you expect, to never ever see him again? Grow up!

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wch_fml 0

Could it be a sign.<3

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DAN7IEL 2

AKWARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the akward rap explains it all

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jayAZ 3

Well, there is only 1 thing to do! walk TAlleR than he! put aside ur differences and walk tall! he's just someone you shared a past with! Think of Bride and Groom...it is their day. You had yours....besides you can then make yourself available to all other groomsmen! Do 'em! have fun!!!

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SquaresviL7e 0

That's a pretty good idea; wearing monster platform shoes.

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ColdGold 6

That's just crazy. Divorced people in the wedding!!! (just kidding) Hang in there.

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