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By DoomsDay - 06/05/2016 14:23

Today, I realized that even though I'm marrying my fiancée in 2 weeks, I don't even love her any more. The only reason I'm doing it is because I don't want to upset her or her family, because they think I'm the best thing that ever happened to her. FML
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Zelphoric 25

You'll hurt her greatly if you don't marry her. But you'll hurt both of you so much more if you marry her without loving her. Better to endure a great pain for a while than live years in a lie.

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IAm123 24

Don't get married, then. When she finds out she would have wished not to get married to you.

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Silvertigre 14

Why do that to someone who loves you? That is just so cruel. What is wrong with you?!

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pink_raindrops 26

So what's your plan? Marry her and pretend to love her forever? What exactly do you think will happen when you come across the person you will fall in love with and want to marry? Its better to end it now instead of waiting til everything crumbles apart and you go through a painful divorce. Your fiancé deserves to marry someone who loves her, not someone pretending to.

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butterfli_murt 3

well shit i never thought i would be relieved from being dumped after the years until i read this.

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cptncuttlefish 24

End it now so she can find a decent person to love. You're pathetic.

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tglassy 2

Love is a choice, not a feeling. 90% of all marriages the world has ever known have been arranged, where the two involved don't even know each other, but love can still be found. If you decide to actually go through with it, make a practice of loving her. Do things for her, focus on making her happy, be the man you should be. If you're not willing to do that, if you're not wiling to make the choice to love her every single day (because it is a choice you will have to make every single day), then don't do it. You will both me miserable.

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faireanjell 5

Man up! Why did you ask her to marry you then? So you're gonna get married then treat her like crap ? You can be a coward or you can be selfish , both gets people hurt..or you can take a minute, step back and think about what you are truly feeling before making such a decision . Remember if you break it off and change your mind later it's too late

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emlizcat 21

Of course break ups hurt feelings but you need to do what's best for you

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Epsilon577 1

OP, my mother went roughly 16 years before she finally told my dad she didn't love him anymore. It was very devastating for him to find out that someone he loved for so long never actually loved him back. You'll be saving her a lot of emotional trauma to tell her now rather than later.

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