By Anonymous - 03/08/2014 15:13 - United States - Atlanta

Today, I should be spending my birthday with my boyfriend of 8 months. Instead he's visiting his ex, who's pregnant with a baby that "may or may not be" his. FML
I agree, your life sucks 49 130
You deserved it 6 469

Same thing different taste

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Well he might not have cheated on you - mathematically speaking.

Nathan_h24 17

You do realize that pregnancies last 9 months right

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Either he left the ex when she got pregnant or he cheated on you. Neither one of those sound like he's a good boyfriend. I say dump him no matter if he's the father or not.

Or he could have dumped his ex before they found out she was pregnant. Which could explain why he's not certain that the baby is his.

That what I meant but didn't clarify. It seems more likely that he cheated because what woman would wait 8 months to find out who the father is?

correct me if I'm wrong, but if she isn't sure, doesn't the baby need to be born before you can do a DNA test?

You can do a DNA test during the pregnancy, for triple the cost and at great risk of the procedure causing the mother to miscarry or go into preterm labor. It's really not worth it when you can do the test with a simple cheek swab once the baby is born.

Sounds like you need a new boyfriend. Time to move on.

i would break up with him. you don't need the baby mama drama. and even if he didn't cheat on you, he decided to be with her when she's still pregnant and no DNA test can be done yet.

Cheer up OP :) you deserve better!! Just say NEXT!... Enjoy and happy birthday :)

Totally understand this situation. I'm in the same spot and I know how it feels.

Why are you still with this guy? He basically admired he cheated on you with his ex and slept with her even

Even if it isn't his baby, why is he with his ex? and on his current girlfriend's birthday, no less...

I wonder how so many says she needs to dumb him. I would not say it's right but we don't know the circumstances but either way unless she's like in labor I'd say he should spend his time with his girlfriend