I do NOT see how this is a FML. I don't even see how this got approved. Another case-in-point for the call for a 'Meh' button on FML.

This is why "sort of" dating is a bad idea that makes no sense.

Andrew, you are correct. And yes, the timeframe doesn't always count, BUT you all missed the fact he also said "AND BEFORE YOU GUYS HAVE AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION" and "and you don't bond with him first" Meaning, if you want to be serious, you better take it seriously, which sometimes means taking it slower for some people. At least, that was the idea I was intending to agree with. And, yes, both people are easy *****. Also about the asking, I agree it is not where you should stop. You should probably "investigate" a little into it. Of course many cheaters are just interested in the sex and don't really give a shit if you know they already have a partner.

You seem very needy/clingy with stalker tendencies. What does 'sort of dating' mean? He orders a big mac from you twice a week?

Maybe she meant, that they were just kind of starting to date, and he wanted sex, but she wanted to actually be in more of a relationship with him before doing so.

well now he is not responsible for u since--you said it yourself-- u guys are KIND OF dating ie. met at a bar, one night stand. ur jus one of those people that think since they have a good time with someone u tend to "cling" to them. quit being so obssessed geeze

if you didnt realize, most guys dont care if theyre viewed as *****...especially douche bags who try to hook up with as many girls as possible

Time to tell his fiancee!

to #62, i just absolutely loove how you say "sleeping with someone while not in a long-term relationship...-------it has nothing to do with the time frame." wow. there was absoluuutely no sarcasm in that. not. at. all.

If that is what she meant, that's still most definitely a red flag she needs to bail on him.