I know where the OP is coming from though. A first offense is never reason enough to end a marriage, we can figure this shit out...but the second time is rough, been there with someone and know a husband personally who stuck it out and it works. Just have to fight for what you love. Guy here who thinks that now you know, but great you tried..good luck in the future. We are decent just have to find us.

I think it's time to end things with him being it's not his frat offense. Sorry OP.

Well, I guess its time to divorce him. I'm really sorry though. Marriage should last until death but there are cases where it just wont work. Or he can actually change but he already had a second chance.

OP, I feel very sorry for you. You must be utterly shattered. But I do wonder, how could you have forgiven once already? If he does it once, he will do it twice.

You should have left him when you found out the first time! You deserve much better than him. That accountant is a twat.

Well, I wouldn't go as far as to say you deserved it, but you did have it coming. Staying with a cheater gives them every reason to cheat again in most cases. You should have left him the first time.

Once a cheater always a cheater.

YDI for being a tool, as someone once said "once a cheater always a cheater" sorry OP.

I hope you mean your "soon to be ex-husband." Divorce his ass.

So what was your decision after all? Tell us