By Very_Bad_Luck - 10/08/2009 04:41 - United States

Today, I was having a serious discussion with my girlfriend of 11 months. I broke the news that I was diagnosed with Lymphoma and I needed her support through my treatments. Ten minutes after, I receive a text saying that she can't endure the pain and stress that I'm causing her, and that we're done. FML
I agree, your life sucks 69 355
You deserved it 3 304

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Wow, what a bitch. You should be happy she's gone.

Well, dude, I gotta be honest: If she wasn't willing/able to support you through this, she's not the one for you anyway. To be fair, it couldn't be easy for her, either (no, it's not 'all about her', but neither is it an easy thing to see someone through) and if you can't cope, you just can't cope. It sucks but it's how it goes. Really, though, the reality is that if you *really* love someone, there's pretty much nothing you won't support them through, and she just wasn't in it. FYL, mate. Best of luck, hope everything turns out well and that you have other people (who really love you) to support you through this shitty time.

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You should be content that she left. She wnsn't worth being with her. Having cancer isn't such a big deal to stop her from loving you and being with you. I got to tell you that i once met a girl that i really liked from when we met, however several days later it turned out she had a breast cancer but tha didn't stop me from trying for her to be mine So now you're in position of findind someone worth being with Good luck out there =)

Man, you should be happy for getting rid of her...

Dude, that's awful. I'm sorry. The timing of the break-up may eventually be a blessing in disguise, though. If she wasn't going to be supportive, better to find out now so you can make a clean break, rather than have her pretend and add the stress of a bad relationship to your body. Some people just can't tolerate illness; I've got a long-term but not life-threatening one, and I've lost a lot of friends. I'd much rather have them do the honest thing and say "Sorry, but I can't hang. Peace out for now," instead of acting fake, saying "I'll always be there for you," then when I need them, making excuses and wasting my time and energy. I can respect not being able to tolerate a friend's pain; I can't respect lying.

Yeah, you're a *******. Hope you enjoy being alone.

Lol, 10 minutes later it's too much? Hahaha, wow she's a truly horrible human being.

Holy crap this FML is extremely convenient because I just got home from chemo last night and I have (burkitts) lymphoma. **** punt her, I'm 14 and just got home yesterday and I could summon up the force to **** punt that kind of bitch. If you were dying, then It'd be understandable. But the OP gave me the impression he just wants his girlfriend nearbye while he's in the hospital, sick. And you've been with her for 11 months?

11 months isn't forever for me, but definitely long enough where I wouldn't betray someone like the OP. If you can't handle someone else being sick to the point you'll make it worse just so you don't have to handle it by being near them than you're a waste of cells.

What? Agreed on people here acting like sad little children and cowards.

I think it is very, very stupid and (for lack of a better word) "mean" to leave someone when they are in such a state. Watch Click and you'll see how horrible it can be (the ending).

Wow, you know when there is less than a 1000 YDI, that its a real FML

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Hi. I'm deciding to comment on my own FML to truly thank the people who wish me luck and keep me in their prayers. If you wish to learn more check out my profile. Thanks!!

Hang in there man. I hope you win the fight

Wow. to anybody who said YDI, should go through it.