By Very_Bad_Luck - 10/08/2009 04:41 - United States

Today, I was having a serious discussion with my girlfriend of 11 months. I broke the news that I was diagnosed with Lymphoma and I needed her support through my treatments. Ten minutes after, I receive a text saying that she can't endure the pain and stress that I'm causing her, and that we're done. FML
I agree, your life sucks 69 354
You deserved it 3 304

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Very_Bad_Luck 0

Hi. I'm deciding to comment on my own FML to truly thank the people who wish me luck and keep me in their prayers. If you wish to learn more check out my profile. Thanks!!

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Wow, what a bitch. You should be happy she's gone.

Well, dude, I gotta be honest: If she wasn't willing/able to support you through this, she's not the one for you anyway. To be fair, it couldn't be easy for her, either (no, it's not 'all about her', but neither is it an easy thing to see someone through) and if you can't cope, you just can't cope. It sucks but it's how it goes. Really, though, the reality is that if you *really* love someone, there's pretty much nothing you won't support them through, and she just wasn't in it. FYL, mate. Best of luck, hope everything turns out well and that you have other people (who really love you) to support you through this shitty time.

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I've watched loved ones go through cancer, a couple who lost their significant others in the process, and I will tell you this: they end up worse off in the long run for leaving because that shit eats at them, as it should. Eleven months is too long to have been with someone to end it right after finding out about the diagnosis. I mean, seriously, she didn't even give support a chance. She didn't deserve you. She really didn't. That being said, there's a group that might be able to help you called Spirit Jumpers. www.spiritjump.org I hope things go better for you. And I hope life donkey punches that girl...

What a selfish bitch! As shitty as that situation is (in pretty much every aspect), at least one good thing came out of that: you now know what a cow she is and you're done wasting your time with her. That's a lot of crap to happen to someone in a short time, sorry it happened to you :(

yourkiddingright_fml 0

Better you find out now what a shallow piece of garbage she is!

guitarhero9 0

Hey man I want you to know I know how you feel. The same exact thing happend to me man. The only difference is that I had been with the girl for a little over two years.

guitarhero9 0

sorry for the double post!!! Hey man I want you to know I know how you feel. The same exact thing happend to me man with the same kind of cancer too ( crazy huh). The only difference is that I had been with the girl for a little over two years. I know you will get through it man! I did! and if I can survive it anyone can.

craphappenstome 0

aww man that sucks. i mean honestly you deserve better i mean what the hell type of girl does that! i've never met one that would ever say that to someone who had a serious disease. But i hope you get better. - hugs- just forget about her.

You have no idea what the OP deserves, so please, don't assume he deserves better than this girl. For all you know he's some asshole who deserves to die of lymphoma.

Maddoctor 10

Really mike1921? Because in your previous post you called the OP's g/f a "****" because she left him. Is it me or are you posts contradicting themselves?

No, I stand by my opinion that she deserves to be **** punted for leaving him for this reason. But for all you know he's a much bigger asshole who doesn't deserve better.

damn i know what your feeling my girlfriend and fiance left me after i was diagnosed (all at one time) diabetes, high blood pressure, and gall bladder diease. since then ive been diagnosed with insomnia, anxiety etc. and i noticed all the comments on 'the he deserves better' shit. you may think that but if he really felt for this girl he could be feeling so small and worthless right now. im praying for you man hang in there

mermaidslive 0

I was diagnosed with the same thing and I told my boyfriend and he said, I will always love you no matter what and I will be there for you 100% of the way. I'm sorry lets kick that bitches ass!