So? Go on, I'm waiting for the FML part. Wait....that was it? Meh...

I don't see this as an FML - you two broke up and there must have been reasons for that, and the fact that you can still go out with her and talk to her like a friend is a good thing. I stay friends with my ex's for the most part and if they wanna talk about their new partner that's fine because I'm just a friend now. Therefore voting YDI for apparently wishing that your ex was still pining for you

I think the ex was being really sweet in trying to let you know how / where you come up short in the bf dept. Write them down. Review them routinely. Work on those aspects of your life and personna.

hey at least shes ur friend...dont get jealous over her new guy, like tom said, "YDI for apparently wishing that your ex was still pining for you"

And for a second, I was gonna say you win for being civil with your ex.

hahahahah you work out? fag.

What is it that you see when you look in the mirror after an experience like that? You probably bought her the food she was eating too! lol

Maybe if you were paying attention to what she was actually saying, You would have figured that out? YDI But it's cool that you guys can still be friends =)

Hey, that's awesome, OP! Seriously! Don't feel sorry for yourself; if you ever cared for her - and it sounds like you still do, else you wouldn't have been out to dinner with her - be glad for her finding someone else that fits her better. I had a girlfriend that wound up getting married, after we broke up, to somebody that treated her like fecal matter. Now, that's something to be upset about. But if she's in a better relationship now, it's great. As for your pride, as other commenters have said, take what she's mentioned about you, count this information as a blessing, and try to learn from it. And even that can't have been too bad, since you didn't even realize it until after the fact. The way I see it, YLIG!

WTF is a after work-out dinner??