clearly you need a new husband. f that.

First off, you've been living with "bad or no sex" for a while now. Take it from an older lady, if you can't talk to him like a friend, or see a counselor about this, go on with your life and leave him. He's not worth years of agony if he walks on you like this and does not take your feelings into consideration. Plenty of fish in the sea for all of us, trust me. Second, how very rude and insensitive of him to stop abruptly like that and insult you in the process. He sounds emotionally like a five year old. I've been there, done that, now I have a great husband I can have great sex with and talk to, but I had to get rid of the crappy husband first and get on with my life. I advise you do the same.

sounds like you got a serious problem there. men like that tend to cheat etc. I'd keep your eye on him.

You guys should try to spice it up! Ask him new things he wants to try. Maybe that would help.

Same, but I'm oddly curious as to what it is also.

He's gay

Tell his mom lol. No really. Then leave the boy in search of a man. Dafuq did I just read...?

Sounds like a second warning. If it is rarely good, and he takes off in the middle of what is good, it's downhill from there. Get out before you waste 20 years where you can be having great sex...

I am curious... can one be bored whilst maintaining an erection?

It's fine if you aren't having problems to begin with, but she shouldn't have to compete with a video game for his affections, nobody should. That aside, with the point they're at now, he's probably the type that would get mad at her for interrupting or getting in the way.