I hate women like you, OP. I don't understand why you would not have had money to cover yourself. He probably should have paid it for you THEN forced you to go ATM hunting, granted, but I still think YDI for assuming that a man should pay for you - that's just two stages away from being a prostitute in my books.

You shouldn't have assumed he'd be paying. :/ On the other hand, it's just a goddamn $6 salad! How much of a cheap ass can you get?

lol @ all the women in here thinking he should pay for it. Bring money and pay for your own ******* food you greedy piece of shit

wow what a douche. it was the first date and he didnt pay? i always pay first date, no matter what. thats the gentleman's way of doing stuff right?

wow why dont u not expect for every guy u go on a first date with to pay for u and bring ur own money!

if you have your card...couldn't you just pay with that...? I dunno. just thought I'd throw that out there.

YDI for actually expecting him to pay for it, always be prepared to pay for your own when playing the dating game,t hat way you never get caught out. If he offers to pay for you then even better and it tells you what kind of guy you may be getting involved with

YDI for expecting him to pay. Women should be prepared to pay on a date, just in case the man agrees that women are equal to men in every way. I'll always pay on a first date, but if she shows up expecting me to pay, that says so much about her and there'll be no second date.

WOW! That really sucks! Hey it says here you are Ontario, Canada...Where-abouts?? I am also in Ontario, Canada

wow, he obviously didn't want to get laid because if he did, he wouldn't have been such an asshole. a guy who is too cheap/poor to pay for a $6 salad is not a guy worth dating. if he's cheap, he's a dick. if he's poor, you'll always be paying for everything, maybe even for him as well, and no nice gifts (or possibly gifts at all)! either way, no second date - that's the way to go.