By wolfwolfy - 13/03/2010 07:18 - Canada

Today, I was on a first date. When the bill came, he refused to pay for my $6 salad. I had to go ATM-hunting to pay for my $6 salad. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 085
You deserved it 13 316

Same thing different taste

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Never expect anything on a first date.....duh

Why do you expect the guy to pay on the first date? You obviously had no intend of paying, so you left your money home in case he did not pay for you. But boohoo he didn't anyway. Also, you sound like a girl that only orders a salad and then eats half the food of other peoples plates.

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FruityLoooons 8

I agree with #19. You should been like, "Oh, hang on. I'll get the money." and then left. :/

ydo fer not bringin money wit u. u cnt expect ppl to pat for you. THINK

ydi for not bringing money with you. you can't expect for someone to pay for you. Usually the man pays but there are sufferer types of men. THINK.

But the tradition itself, the reason it used to be expected that men pay for dates, stems from sexist reasoning. The reason it's a double standard is because women want to keep the benefits of sexist tradition while [rightly] wanting to throw out the mindset. Sexism and men paying for dates WERE related in the past, to say they weren't is just ignoring history.

YDI for never communicate, each couple has their own pattern of paying , u should told him what u were expecting and of course bring enough cash if he turns out to be a jerk.

YTDI that's what you get for expecting a man to always pay for shit.. I hope u learned ur lesson

karamelkream 0

If a guy truly likes you, he'll most definitely pay. My boyfriend pays for me every single time! Yay!!

You should always have money and offer to pay anyways.

Always carry at least $20 in your wallet. You can't expect a guy to pay all the time...even so, if he's not willing to spend $6 on you, then you need to leave.