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But the tradition itself, the reason it used to be expected that men pay for dates, stems from sexist reasoning. The reason it's a double standard is because women want to keep the benefits of sexist tradition while [rightly] wanting to throw out the mindset. Sexism and men paying for dates WERE related in the past, to say they weren't is just ignoring history.
YDI for never communicate, each couple has their own pattern of paying , u should told him what u were expecting and of course bring enough cash if he turns out to be a jerk.
YTDI that's what you get for expecting a man to always pay for shit.. I hope u learned ur lesson
You should always have money and offer to pay anyways.
hahahah, aw that sucks...
Always carry at least $20 in your wallet. You can't expect a guy to pay all the time...even so, if he's not willing to spend $6 on you, then you need to leave.
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Never expect anything on a first date.....duh
Why do you expect the guy to pay on the first date? You obviously had no intend of paying, so you left your money home in case he did not pay for you. But boohoo he didn't anyway. Also, you sound like a girl that only orders a salad and then eats half the food of other peoples plates.