By sabbydutchgirl - 25/08/2009 18:52 - United States
sabbydutchgirl tells us more.
First of all, I am 19. I don't have my license because I have nobody at home who will take me driving. My dad works 3 jobs and my mom doesn't want me to leave and move out. Secondly, my 6 dates are between 2 guys. For the first guy, we'd set a date, he wouldn't show, and then we'd chat and THEN he'd give me some excuse. After 2 missed dates I let 2 months go by and we'd try again. For the second guy, he had legit excuses for missing and understandably explained them to me later. He at least apologized for missing. But still, 6 dates planned this summer and not one of them happened and I was completely in the dark when it came time for them to show up. I take full blame for allowing myself to think that maybe they'd show next time. When trapped at home, any chance to get out is reason for hope, even if its with a jerk. I'm also sorry to disappoint some of you, but I'm neither a HO nor a ****. I'm just a very foolish, lonely person.
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Try getting your license.
Maybe they dont feel like driving you home if the date goes bad, or if they ditch you in the middle of it you would be stranded.
Might have something to do with having to pick you up? I mean, if I was always having to pick my date up because they wouldn't get their damned license... Oh also, six different dates in one summer? Maybe you're coming off as being NEEDY...
I was fifteen once too.
I'll pick you up if you're near rotterdam. :)
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Sabs, I'm so sorry. You're going to have to stay over more often so I can let you drive the car rather than the van. You'll find someone eventually. So, want to take classes at main in the spring? It should widen your options. And, for everyone else. I can think of nothing more than Sab wants more than to get her liscense, a job, and the hell out. But, she is the baby of the family and the only girl and her mom can be a lot on the controlling side. I know all about it. I'm married to her brother.
im so sorry you had to go through that :(