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By Username - 06/10/2010 21:59 - France

Today, I was telling my boyfriend about how self conscious I am and how I obsess about my weight. He said, "Don't be ridiculous, you don't need to lose THAT much weight." FML

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By cc - 24/11/2009 05:03 - United States

Today, I was talking to my boyfriend about how I'm self conscious about my weight. He looks at me and says, "Don't worry babe, I've always been kind of a chubby chaser." FML

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Roll with it

By anon - 17/09/2019 22:00

Today, my boyfriend encouragingly told me that he could tell I was losing weight, all because I had one roll fewer than usual on my stomach. FML

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By notsoskinny - 18/04/2009 16:13 - United States

Today, I told my boyfriend that I gained a few pounds and thought I looked fat. He replied that I looked the same and that I shouldn't worry because he likes fat girls. I never thought I was fat before this. FML

I agree, your life sucks 48 947

You deserved it 18 642

By pooh anne - 26/02/2013 20:26 - United States - Fort Smith

Today, I was trying to be sexy and change in front of my boyfriend. As I was changing, he started to talk to me about how we should both try and lose weight. FML

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You deserved it 7 981

Charming

By Anonymous - 08/10/2021 23:00 - Trinidad and Tobago

Today, my chunky boyfriend told me that he'd be less attracted to me if I gained weight. I have low self-esteem. FML

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Worst argument ever

By desigirl - 10/11/2015 01:03 - United States - Johnson City

Today, my boyfriend told me I should stop talking about his major gambling problem because he still loves me even though I gained weight. Apparently that evens things out. FML

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You deserved it 3 437

By Srain - 07/01/2010 06:36 - Australia

Today, feeling confident, I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my new body, since I had lost 16 kilos over the past month. He told me that he missed the old me and wanted me to gain weight again. My boyfriend was the one that encouraged me to lose weight in the first place. FML

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You deserved it 3 858

Food fight

By hss - 30/05/2011 01:59 - United States

Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML

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You deserved it 49 756

By Coley - 29/01/2009 22:46 - Canada

Today, I went to the doctor to talk about my depression and low self-esteem. He told me that I shouldn't think of myself as a fat pig for being overweight. I don't think that and I'm NOT overweight. FML

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You deserved it 3 696

By Embarrassed - 12/12/2011 13:45 - Germany

Today, while having dinner with my boyfriend's family, his mom told me that it looks like I've gained quite some weight. When my boyfriend told her that this was a rude thing to say, she said it wasn't rude, just the truth. FML

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jacketfootball 0

Thursday 7 October 2010 0:35

he was trying to be nice, you don't need to put it on fml.

oboewhore_xD 6

Thursday 7 October 2010 0:38

Wow. There's a lot of rude people on FML. No need to call her "fatty" or "lil piggy". :(

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UglyBagOfWater 0

Sunday 10 October 2010 15:03

You can't be that self-conscious about your weight if you choose to remain overweight.

Christopher08 0

Tuesday 12 October 2010 8:45

damn why you with an idiot your stupid

AmbrosiaFan 18

Wednesday 13 October 2010 18:18

how exactly is this an FML? he said you don't need to lose "that much" weight, which IMO is a compliment.

tyty78_fml 0

Friday 22 October 2010 5:58

You know what makes me sad? YOU DO! LET'S ALL GO TO MAMBY PAMBY LAND AND WHINE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS! GET WITH THE PROGRAM JACK WAGON!

Kellycblue 0

Friday 8 April 2011 21:21

don't fish for compliments...duh

Niki0308 0

Wednesday 20 April 2011 0:13

I don't get how it's an FML because he said you don't need to lose that much weight. If he said you need to lose a lot I'd understand. But he didn't so.... yea. I don't get it. 

the_huldra 1

Thursday 28 April 2011 23:32

I never understood why fat people can't accept that their fat instead of getting mad at other why don't you get off your fat ass and stop being fat.

chellabella856 0

Monday 2 May 2011 1:47

atleast he's honest

birdfreak 24

Saturday 28 May 2011 22:54

that's actually rather supportive saying you're not that fat maybe you're just chubby

Helpfulsolution1 0

Tuesday 7 June 2011 8:15

That is what they call a backhanded compliment. That is one of those unintentional slams. I truly understand what you are going through. You want to stay away from public places because of the horribly people who stare and make you feel even worse about yourself. You dont want to go out to eat because you feel like everyone is looking at you if you dont have a salad. You also feel like your man is less attracted to you causing him to possibly stray. Dont worry about any of that, just work on building up the love you have inside for yourself. When you have love for self, people cant help but love you. Along with love for self, you have inner strength that can help you to overcome any obstacle. If you dont like your weight, change it! I know that is easier said than done but I am working on losing 40lbs as we speak but I know that right now with this weight, I am big and beautiful. I know how hard it can be to lose weight. This is what is helping me humblebeginningsin2cash2.com. Hope this helps.