By Anasztaizia - 26/03/2015 06:58 - United States - Burnsville

Today, I was told by my boyfriend's parents to never come back to his house again, and was given a lecture about rule breaking. Apparently, curfew is midnight, and he isn't allowed to have girls over. This didn't sound so unreasonable until I remembered that we're both almost 30. FML
I agree, your life sucks 33 958
You deserved it 3 998

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Anasztaizia 3

OP here! #51, you are both correct and incorrect. It IS actually his place, but he bought it off his parents. TL;DR: when they decided it was time to downsize, he bought their house off them, but they haven't moved out yet. The mentality of it still being their house, their rules (which I agree is sensible) hasn't quite left their heads yet.

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Top comments

briang959 47

If your boyfriend still lives at home when he's 30, it's time to find a new boyfriend.

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Comments

Repethetic 25

move out. seriously, a 12pm curfew is reasonable if its just that they don't want you making noises keeping them up into the night. if he wasnt allowed out that would be a different story, but seriously who lives with their parents at 30?!! ydi

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Silvershield 14

I live with my parent and in my 30s. Not having the right job to move out does that to people.

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dakid87 10

What's wrong with this picture?

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Deku_Cutie 12

YDI for dating someone who lives with his parents.

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Bebbo_fml 21

I don't know your bf's situation so I won't judge him for living at home but he needs to seriously have a talk with his parents.

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vikky538 28

if a guy is living in his parents house at this age and you are dating him..then you are not just dating one but you are dating three people...

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Spadoinkle 10

I don't know if your boyfriend lives with his parents or if they are just overstepping the boundaries, it's not stated in the sentence. Either way, if you have your own place, perhaps you should just hang out there together. Also, all the people judging this guy because he might live at home with his parents are just rude and judgmental. I've had to live with my parents before. Sometimes you hit a rough patch in your life and you need some help. I don't know the situation, so it's not for me to be a jerk and tear him down about it.

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YouKnowIMeantMe_ 21

People like to be judgemental. Just shows how spoiled they are.

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angryo5trich 13

Well yeah he's living there so he kinda has to follow there rules but if he's 30 and still lives there that's kinda pathetic

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anyoldnamewilldo 23

If you are dating a guy who still lives with his parents at 30, you kinda deserve it and so does he.

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anyoldnamewilldo 23

If you are dating a guy who still lives with his parents at 30, you kinda deserve it and so does he. If he doesn't live with them and they are just controlling him from afar, he needs to cut the cord already. In fact, either way he needs to cut the cord. Sorry for the double post...ran out of time to edit.

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funkypenguin 7

I think the argument is not whether or not he has to obey the rules, but that they are ridiculous for a 30 year old man to have. But yes that is true, their house their rules.

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