By Anasztaizia - 26/03/2015 06:58 - United States - Burnsville
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OP here! #51, you are both correct and incorrect. It IS actually his place, but he bought it off his parents. TL;DR: when they decided it was time to downsize, he bought their house off them, but they haven't moved out yet. The mentality of it still being their house, their rules (which I agree is sensible) hasn't quite left their heads yet.
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We may not be 30, but I was banned from my boyfriends house too. I know how it feels.. Sorry op
Dose he still live at home???
it says his house, as in they are living with him? or is he living with them?
Is his name Howard?
Could be THEY have a bedtime and don't like noisy guests after midnight or have to worry about running into people at all hours in their pjs or other embarrassing stuff we don't worry about with just family. They are just used to calling it his curfew. Even though the house has changed hands it's hard for parental units to let go of the reins of control. My brother in law bought his family home decades ago and his elderly parents still consider it theirs and tell him what he can and can't do to it. Sounds like they'll be out soon and problem solved. Visit at more reasonable hours for now. Better to get along with them incase this relationship is long term. No reason to cause a problem between your guy and his parents over a short term issue if you really care about and love him.
I think you and him have..... the talk
You should probably try and figure out why he's almost 30 and still living with his parents. By that time he needs to be out of their house.
Their place. Their rules.
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If your boyfriend still lives at home when he's 30, it's time to find a new boyfriend.
Time to get a place of your own.