Since he didn't ask to be born, his parents owe him more than he owes them. If you have a child you need to be ready from everything that comes from it. If he doesn't have money to move out, it's his parents responsibility to take care of him and provide home. They made him. It's like when you take a puppy home. It's your responsibility. So, it's their house, but he's still a human being that deserves respect and should do what he wants.

I know a guy who's parents live with him in his house because they have disabilities and can't afford their own house, occasionally they try to make rules for him. Just because his parents live with him doesn't mean it's a YDI, he might just be a caregiver.

OP says she is not to come back to "his house". We don't know if his parents are living with him or if he lives seperatly from his parents. In either case the parents are way over stepping the boundaries.

To all those bashing this guy, you really don't have a right. I actually did that to one FML because I assumed he was lazy and too attached to his parents and didn't wanna grow up and I found out it was like a religion base thing where he has to stay with the parents until married then he moves out with the wife and they start their lives as one. So I'm definitely not gonna bash this guy because I don't know his back story or reasons, I have no right to judge someone I don't know. But those parents are kind of harsh, I mean he's 30? So I don't understand that, but I think OP should start insisting on going to their house assuming they have a place of their own. I think the parents are ridiculous and I'd bash my head in the wall if I had parents like that

I would take his parents lecture and run with the wind! Maybe it's time to find a new, more independent boyfriend. But if he makes you happy, then I'm sure y'all can work out the kinks...provided, his parents don't have a say in y'all's relationship problems too.

The FML says "his house", meaning the boyfriend's. It doesn't imply that he lives with the parents. If that's correct, then the parents are REALLY overstepping. Seems like a follow-up is in order. In either case, it's pretty absurd for them to say he's not allowed to have a woman over EVER.

Are you serious? No, a parent is not obligated to hold their kids' hands for the rest of their lives. Comparing making another human being to getting a puppy gives us an idea of how you view people. An animal cannot take care of itself and be independent. A child grows up and is capable of that unless there is a physical or mental disability. Please do not reproduce.

ydi for dating a 30 year old who still lives at home with his parents..

Why would you date a 30 year old man who still live at home? ?

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