By Medication - 12/10/2013 15:31 - United States

Spicy
Today, I went home after work with my best friend who I am also secretly in love with. We had a few drinks, were getting touchy, and one thing led to another. Before leaving, I got the courage to ask her out on a real date. Her only reply was, "I don't want to lose such a good friend." FML
I agree, your life sucks 61 187
You deserved it 7 060

Medication tells us more.

I didn't have an account when I posted this, but I'm the OP, and honestly, during our drunken state, I mustered up enough sobriety to prevent things from going too far. I as well, didn't want to ruin things between us by having sex because I respected her too much, and wanted more than that. Was it the right thing to do, or was I just being a dumbass? One commenter was correct in stating that she was confused as to what she really wanted. Either way, we've talked it out, and moved over that. It's better anyways maybe, considering we both work together and I have to go on months long deployments with this girl, haha. :]

Comments

Fwb? Sex is better than other friend zone activities

Mlsmith173 3

tell her she has already hurt your friendship by letting this happen. tell her it can't hurt it any more if she lets you take her on a damned date.

Absolutely love that you respect a woman. That is the best feature a man can have. Good on you!

Oooohhhh so close and then friendzoned sorry guy try flowers and try to listen it might take a while but she will relise that she loves you

A moment of silence for our brother in the friend zone.

Don't worry bud, I've gotten out of the friend zone it's easy

The friendzone hurts bro, we've all ben through it

Doesn't matter. Had sex. Don't be a whiney bitch