It's not a bad thing!! Or good but she loves you as a friend. You shouldn't be ashamed of that. Keep being that good friend

Secretly in love with? You had dinner some drinks and she wanted to fool around, but you didn't make your intentions known. It happens, tell them how you feel, but don't be surprised they don't want to date you. Just cause you find someone attractive doesn't mean you want to get into a relationship or sleep with them.

I must be real confused, I thought Friends With Benefits was a FRIEND you sometimes slept with, while f**k buddies was someone you only hung around with for the sex. (As in you're not really friends or buddies, you just add that part because it seems more PC). In a relationship, I thought that meant that was the only friend you would sleep wtih/mess around with/flirt with (meaning you have sexual activity of some sort that you have with no one else). I assumed OP had sex with his friend, but it could have been just oral or just messing around. When I tell guys I just want to be friends, I mean I want to hang out/talk/act goofy but not have sex with them. It means I'm not sexually attracted to them. Hard to explain

been there felt that ouch!

Friendzoned....welcome to the club, you are late, too late......

But did you smash though?

Sex doesn't mean love, I hate that guys assume just cause they got laid and they have feelings for the girl that they're going to start a relationship. And enough of this "friendzone" shit, she doesn't want to date you, man up and stop making excuses, she's just not that into you.

Your better off looking somewhere else! You're in the friendzone now

perfect! sealed the deal, without the bullshit! win win.

Friendzoned