By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.
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#246/lbg513: I see your point, but there are two things to extract from the original comment: calling the OP a *****, and saying she deserved it for getting pregnant. It could be just me, but I don't think that the majority of the comments are focused on those two issues, surprisingly. I think the majority of comments are really focusing on the fact that she called her "crush" (and the ambiguity of that term) which lends itself to a lot of questions about to what extent this crush is actually involved in this situation. I could be wrong. You can go back and count the number of comments that relate to those "***** and all of that" issues if you wish. I just think you'd find MORE comments asking something along the lines of, "Why are you calling your crush?"
Smart guy!
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#116 Birth control fails. No really. It does. All this 'she shoulda kept her legs closed!' and how many people think people are freaks if they're virgins after the age of 20? That means having sex as a teen. #126 people go into premature labour frequently. And people have crushes frequently. If the father left her when he found out, that's at least 5 months since he left. Plenty of time to start crushing. Or maybe she crushed on her friend before she got pregnant. #127. I agree with the right to abortion. But not everyone feels like they can have one. #137 . People misjudge people. Or maybe he was abusive and she suddenly realised it and left for her own safety. It happens. I know several people it's happened to- if they were pregnant as well, I'd advise them not to stay with the father, and be thankful they finally woke up to their situation with the father. #142 you're right, there's morning after pills. I sorta forgot about those. Still, you're supposed to use them within 72 hours or something, right? And I'd be guessing sometimes it's not that obvious a mistake was made. I know lots of people who believe in BC but not abortion- they just can't do it. And one of my best friends has the worst trouble with BC ever. Yet she has a long term boyfriend who can't really be expected to abstain, can he? She's 23, in the middle of a second degree, has almost no money yet (as she's studying), and it'd totally suck for her to get pregnant, but she is an adult. And is trying with the BC. But it keeps stuffing up, or making her sick, or rupturing her uterus...
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Whoops sorry, I forgot a point- she's 23 and in no position to get married first.
how are you pregnant with a "crush" and no father in the room with you? *****.
mommymia
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Basically, nowadays cell phones don't interfere with hospital's more advanced equipment. The reason they still require them off or not in use is because of the camera's, which invade people's privacy, therefore breaking HIIPA laws.
AngryC4t
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At first, I clicked FYL, then I clicked YDI. Why? Because babies have fathers, and I'm kind of surprised you didn't give him a call first. If the "best friend" was the father, then FYL because ignoring you would be a dick move.
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#277 what is preventing your friend's boyfriend from wearing condoms, if she has such trouble with the pill? I know it doesn't feel as good, but if my girlfriend had such problems with birth control I would certainly wear condoms
238 said it all
Maybe if you weren't such a slapper your husband could have went with you :)
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he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.