By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States

Today, I went to the hospital in premature labor. Alone, I texted my best friend/crush and asked him to come and sit with me for an hour while I waited on my mom to arrive. Eating cornflakes and watching TV, he replied "I can't". Apparently TV is more important than a best friend in labor. FML
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.

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gorjjays6 0

he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml

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ilikefish 0

Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.

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sensual_kidney 0

if you wanted company during labor, you would have had the dad there. YDI for being loose with your vag.

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philadelphianus 0

that's ******* weird i was just in the hospital for the same thing.. also having a baby with my best friend/crush my water broke just before i was supposed to have my cervix sewn shut and my baby was too little. i hope everything is ok with you

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tarale9 0

what happened to the father? i think you should have called him, not your new crush...

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flamencosketches 0

So you're having a baby, and you have a crush on your best friend, who is a man. This tells me that either: 1) Your male counterpart is away or something and thus cannot be at the birth and you're feeling attracted to your best friend, meaning that you are unfaithful and stupid (for having the baby) or 2) You do not have a male counterpart for whatever reason, and you're attracted to your best friend, but you're having your ex-hubby's (or rapist's or whatever) child anyway, even though this will make it unspeakably more difficult for you two (you and your best friend) to get together. Ever heard of abortion? Either way, I honestly don't blame your best friend for not wanting to get involved. YDI.

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scateice 0

im confused cuz i dont know any details in this so i wont state opinions, though it seems the last 310 comments are fags

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megs8907 0

WOW TO EVERYONE! You guys tire me out with all your comments... FYL OP :-(

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nerdgrl128 0

do u people think? What if the babys father is an ass and is out of the picture? why would she call him? and i would call my mother and best friend no matter how old i was. and number 309 and 305 stfu. Some people do not believe in abortion u jerk. Why are people so damn ignorant. USE UR BRAINS YOU ALL HAVE ONE. honey i'm sorry he was being a butt that really sucks,

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renii_10 0

all arguments aside, #9 made my day and it is SO TRUE. labor takes hours, once cornflakes are soggy they're pretty much ruined. and when during your morning sickness and baby shower and preparation did you find time to "crush"??

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_pk_ 0

best friend / crush ? Uuh... Don't get me wrong, I know labor is important and everything... but I don't get how your best friend is also your crush and you expect him to be there seeing you give birth to someone else's child. I don't see the point of him being there either. But sucks that your mom wasn't there.

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