By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States
way2gosam tells us more.
Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.
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232 - the way the welfare system is set up alot of people have no choice but to get pregnant, that is if they want to keep access to medicine that they can't live without, when they are unable to work full time. Sucks but thats what happens because of the way our social security and health insurance system is set up. Medicaid will kick you off within just a few months if you aren't applying and appealing to social security, and if social security denies you, (even if you can prove beyond any possible doubt they are denying you for a reason that doesn't apply to you, which even happens to people who are applied while in comas) then you loose medicaid - UNLESS you have a child in the household under 3 years old. Thats why you see so many welfare people with children under 3. Its survival. Sucks, but thats the way our government prefers it. They'd rather have a bunch of children that can't be cared for, and need to be supported, then to revitalize the welfare system so that someone who is disabled to the point where they can't work full time has the chance to get a private health insurance plan that will actually cover their disability - there are alot of disabilities that no private insurance plans will cover at all, and some disabilities that are covered, most of the medicines used to treat them aren't covered. So the disabled have no choice but to die or have kids
haha that's not a best friend. The idea is to have someone to lean on when you REALLY need them. hahaha I think you should replace him ;) Congrats on the Baby tho :)
aha, wow nice best friend. must have been an amazing tv show ;)
you, miss, sound like a dirty *****
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he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.