By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States

Today, I went to the hospital in premature labor. Alone, I texted my best friend/crush and asked him to come and sit with me for an hour while I waited on my mom to arrive. Eating cornflakes and watching TV, he replied "I can't". Apparently TV is more important than a best friend in labor. FML
I agree, your life sucks 43 215
You deserved it 23 881

way2gosam tells us more.

Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.

Top comments

he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml

Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.

Comments

shirvon100 0

you cant forget that he was also eating cornflakes, there an important part of a nutrious brekfast

BlackMamba04 0

What 'evidence', BoatieBanter?An entry on a website consisting of a few lines?And all of a sudden you think that you have a right to judge what kind of parent this woman will be based on that?!You can't be serious!

everydayisFML 0

How old are you, 16? every way you describes this story paints this picture. honestly, u need to quit thinking about ur "crush" cuz u now have a BABY you need to worry about. UGH.

heyyou1203 0

OP- congrats on your new baby! I'm sure he/she is beautiful and you'll have a wonderful life together! To everyone judging her for being a single mom - STFU b/c you have no idea what her situation is. How do we even know how old she is? Maybe the father's a douche and left, maybe he's in jail, maybe he raped her and she doesn't know him or doesn't want anything to do with him. She was extremely strong to bring a child into this world as a single mom knowing that she'd have to deal with judgments from idiots like you, and she still chose to do it. Power to her!

laurlaurs 0

If you're young and immature enough to call him a crush, you're definitely way to young to have a baby.

ihearnoises 0

YDI for having a "crush" AND being a mom, coz apparently the dad isn't anywhere near... oh yea and #320....your an idiot and your living in a dream world...I feel sorry for you

ihearnoises 0

excuse me i mean "heyyou1203" not #320