By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States
way2gosam tells us more.
Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.
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so, today, you had a baby, came home awfully quickly, and decided to post on fml? ....
maybe he does not think of you as a good friend, just someone he knows. you need to find out.
Why is ur best friend ur crush?
#212 it most certainly does not take "one time" to get pregnant...unless millions of teens are just losing their virginity ONCE and whoooopsies, pregnant. You can only get pregnant a certain time of the month-which to me seems like she's been having quite a lot of sex in order to get that baby. I'm going to stick with the opinion that she's a little bit on the loose side and say "YDI". Oh, and btw- I'm really happy to use my very very hard earned money to support stupid choices. I mean...what do I need that money anyway when there are little girls getting pregnant? Selfish me..
hey, if ur in labor in the hospital and you're TEXTING people to come and be there, there is something wrong don't you think? If this baby is, you know, IMPORTANT then ******* CALL people with your own words and voice! at least give the baby that much respect then for its mom to be stupidly texting in the hospital. and screw your crush, u picked a bad crush!
so you think he is your best friend, but does he think that you are his best friend? You should probably check that out.
Crush? Labour? This is all kinds of wrong.
first of all, if you're in labor, you shouldn't have a crush...freaking idiot. second of all, that isnt a best firned if all he does is it on his butt when a "friend's" in labor. the whole thing is stupid...especially you!
excuse me! #321! ur an idiot! if she had been raped, she probs wouldn't even been on this site! and she def wouldn't have written her own thing! i still think she's an IDIOT for having a kid, but still having a CRUSH!!! what's wrong with people these days?!
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he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.