By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.
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maybe shes giving the kid up for adoption, jeez did nobody else here watch juno???
@276 - point well taken. At the same time, as more and more comments are added "majority" is obviously going to change, particularly as more people seem to be defending this poor OP. But even those statements you mentioned could easily be said in much lighter tone - versus still IMPLYING that she's a ****/*****/deserves to be abandoned by her best friend, etc, or even without judging her personal situation or questioning her age and/or intelligence level. @294 - is your comment even necessary? Yes, I am an adult, and I'm not sure why you think I would need your pity. Maybe when you grow up you'll be able to argue effectively, but the point is that you stated that NO ONE in this forum was calling her a *****, saying she deserved it, etc, when in fact there are countless examples of those very statements - you call that a minor wording mistake? I'd think my using the term "majority" when it may not be entirely factual and more of a general statement is more excusable than your statement which is 100% false. Whether it's in fact a majority is not a point I'm going to argue, because I don't have the time or even care enough to count and find out for a fact (perhaps you could after you finish your homework and before night-night?), but I'm comfortable with knowing that my hyperbole (hey, you wanted SAT) is still hands down more accurate than your comment.
he doesn't want to be involved in your baggage maybe.
justxdream
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Congratulations! I just don't understand why you'd have a crush, if you were married. Unless your not married, and the crush is the father which means your way too young. Or maybe you just worded this really, really badly. lol
#9 is the man! #36 is right, some people find the pregnancy thing a little squeamish, and considering he isn't the dad why can't he say no?
RazorbladeSmiles
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Shouldn't you like the guy who impregnated you?
perfectwinds
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265- Adults post on this site all of the time. Obviously you're not on it a lot. And **** YOU to everyone calling single moms ******. Shit happens, and since we DIDN'T take the route of killing an unborn baby we're ******? Contraceptives fail and sometimes you don't find out until you pee on the stick. I'm a GREAT mother. And yes, she's a single mom but has time to post on here because guess what? Babies SLEEP! ESPECIALLY newborns. Dumbasses. You're obviously not parents so STFU.
itsgen
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dam! 334 cmnts and im 335 woah thats alot but if he really was ur bestfriend he wouldnt of done that get a new bff and i thought guys were the better friends guess not
itsgen
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oh and **** you 332! ur obviously a COMPLETE DUMB ASS!!!! WHY IS SHE A *****? CUZ SHES PREGNANT SOO YOU DNT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO THE FATHER HE COULD OF PASSED AWAY YOU DNT KNOW SO SHUT UR STUPID ******* MOUTH! i cant stand idiots like you
YDI for having a crush while in labor. Even if you aren't a ***** and something happened to the father, you can't expect "your crush" to come racing to the rescue and watch something come out of your crotch for you
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he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.