boy..i feel sorry for the child she has if she got shit faced while with child..

If she had been drinking heavily, I feel bad for that baby. Fetal alcohol syndrome is serious, not to mention she's probably been shitfaced every other time she's slept around and tried to pull that trick. :/

If she was drinking that heavily I hope the baby actually survives, there's no telling how often she does this or what else she does. I'm sorry OP. :/

if she has been doing it for 7 months think of HIV she has by now

She was drinking while pregnant? Now THAT is heavily wrong!

187-- I already know this is going to sound like a terrible statement, but it probably would be better if that child was a still-born. She seems like she is way too selfish and immature to do anything good for that baby, it will probably have a rough life. It makes me sad that people like her get pregnant, but people that would make awesome parents cannot conceive.

Oh jeez. I felt like the worst human alive when I drank the day before I found out I was preganant. The whole pregnancy I was so worried I had hurt her bc I drank once. Nothing is wrong with her, FYI. I just dont understand how someone could do that shit...

I feel bad for the kid. How rude it may be, I kinda hope the baby doesn't survive. Having a uncaring mom like that seems worse to me than death. And OP, make sure to test yourself for STD's, you never know.

The kid will probably die if shes been drinking heavily for the last 7 months

Situations like these are why I get pissed off with anti-choicers. This woman to me sounds like the kind of person who really didn't want a child and is now seriously damaging what will soon be a baby while trying to force somebody else to be responsible for the kid. I know of so many people who for religious reasons or whatever were against abortion so carried the child to term and then treated it incredibly badly either during the pregnancy or after. If you aren't ready to have a child, or if you don't want to have a child, don't have the child.

When I saw that OP replied, i thought he wanted to share with us that he really passed out.

You're ******!!!! Fa la la la your ******

I thought the same thing. What a abhorrent thing to do to a child who hasn't even had a go at life yet. If she has been drinking heavily for the duration of her pregnancy the state of that baby couldn't be anywhere near good. Their life is already ruined. The hippy part of me wants to believe the soul could them be chosen for a different life, where it's health and happiness is a priority to the mother and father.

that chick is a skeeze....I just pray for that poor child :(

I completely agree, some may be offended by that but it Infuriates me to see someone acting like that while pregnant. I hope the baby is born healthy but judging by her actions it doesn't look good for baby. Karma is a bitch, so enjoy the ride!

Poor child. Drinking while pregnant is a very irresponsible thing, and this baby may suffer from bad health problems.

You shouldn't be drinking when pregnant!

I hope it doesn't survive.. It's probably better off never even experiencing the world than with a mother like that.

How about, oh I don't know, adoption?

I hope the kid dies, for its own sake. Having a mother who abuses you when you aren't even born... hoe will she act when she has the baby? It will end up as a statistic in some sad poll about neglect and/or child death.

#196 I agree with you and a good way to not have the child is to be abstinent.

So, you're 100% sure that you weren't out cold for 7 months?

The reality could be that even though this woman has treated her unborn child so badly she has a healthy child :( which is such a shame when so many deserving parents can not carry to term :(

#216 how long do you think it will take the ****** up baby to be adopted? I can make it easy for you, it won't. It'll bounce around foster homes until 18 at which time it will be thrown out. Adoption for special needs kids never really work out easily. Also @230 if she was drinking that much that baby has F.A.S. And is In no way healthy.

In certain times of pregnancy, the baby isn't as susceptible to alcohol or pot because of the stage of development. You're not bad, you legit didn't know. By no means am I saying that it is ok to use and abuse alcohol or drugs while pregnant. I'm just saying that the level of sensitivity goes up and down depending on the stage of neonatal development.

I'm sorry you encountered such a horrible person. I'm even more sorry for that child. I hope that if it survives, it'll have someone who really will love and cherish it or it will be able to find a home with people who will take care of it and love it properly. That woman doesn't deserve to be a mother.

233, I think the adoption comment was made to contrast the pro-choice lady who all but said the lady should have ended the babies life before it had begun. Thus saying that in most cases, not this one, adoption is a much more humane option to abortion. I agree with the abstinence guy though. If you don't want to get pregnant, don't do the one thing that makes babies. It really is quite simple. Sex=babies. That's what it's there for. Yes, it is pleasurable as well, but it is there to create babies. I don't understand why people sleep around and then whine about "I don't know what to do! How did I get pregnant?" -__- sorry for the rabbit trail there.

I agree with everyone saying how horrible of a mother she is but I just wanna say...if she's been sleeping around, go get checked OP!

Actually, adoption is not necessarily the most humane choice. A disabled child, such as this woman's progeny is likely to be, will most likely bounce from home to home, which will likely leave him/her physcologically, as well as physically disabled. However, even if the child is adopted, there is still a good chance that their home life will be unstable. I don't mean to say that those who adopt for the right reasons aren't doing a great thing, but of the 6 or 7 adopted kids I know, most suffer from depression, end up kicked out of school, or even land themselves in jail due to a lack of family support. Personally, I feel that a fetus that is aborted early on is less alive than a grown adult who has loved, seen, heard, and experienced the world around them. To me, those experiences, positive or negative, are what differentiates man from ape. Sorry for the rant, but this issue is important to me.

I use to work with disabled people whose family didn't even give a shit about them so they were placed in a home. Most of them were wards of the state. One fellow his parents left and changed their number without letting us know. Their son would cry every day wanting his mom. Adoption isn't always the answer, and in the case of drug and alcohol abuse, sometime maybe abortion is a better option for the baby than going through the crap the mom has now decided to put her child through.

I am adopted and I was lucky to 've adopted by a caring and loving mother but just to play a bit of devils advocate it is not necessarily true that because a woman drinks during pregnancy it'll definitely affect the baby, I'm not saying it'll be all sunshine and rainbows either mind as it is scientifically proven, I'm just saying that the baby may not be as tucked as we think, I mean my aunt was a party animal growing up she got pregnant not even knowing who the father was and she did not tone it down one bit during the pregnancy, she would be found passed out in bars and such, but then when my cousin was born and just becoming a mother turned her right around, she cleaned up her act she got a job and a house and raised him all on her own for years, he is now 27 and doing a doctorate in engineering, despite all signs of the opposite from the get go things did change for the better, I'm not saying this woman will change I'm not saying she won't. I hope she does and the baby turns out fine.

This woman upsets me so much! If you don't want to have a child use birth control or put the baby for adoption. I will gladly take that child off your hands. I hate that stupid people like her can get easily pregnant, then there are people like me who try for two years..... God this woman made me so angry I'm crying!

If you can remember anything about her at all or if you or one of your friends spot her again please call the police or do something to save the baby. Please? You could seriously save a life if you do.

@261 I know how you feel, I was trying for a baby for a year and all I had was an early miscarriage, my boyfriend and I have put it on hold as I am very ill and on medication that would be dangerous for an unborn baby so because of that we use birth control! people like this woman are so....frustrating! why can't they think of the little life they have created and appreciate that!

and I hope the person who takes it is God