You are still alive, your mom should be celebrating that instead of raining on your parade. Also, sounds like she needs some therapy to get over it. My advice? Get out of that house and find a life for yourself that's a bit more focused on you, not your mother and her issues.

I'm so sorry... I understand that your mom is sad and stuff, but it's been six years. She could try to pull herself together for her own daughter's birthday.

happy birthday happy birthday happybirthday to you! an youre grandma:) nobody is ever really gone, comfort your mom and make the best out of your birthday! but remember dont let the phantom get near you

I'm sorry OP, but I can't help but see you as a bit selfish. by the sounds of it, this was probably your maternal grandmother and so your mother lost her mom. Six years is not enough to heal that wound, you'll know when your mom dies someday.

Happy belated birthday then and sorry about your loss. Try talking to your mom about it or take her to her grave or ashes and just sorta talk it out.

My grandpa died on my birthday. I know the feeling. You're probably never going to get a reminder-free birthday again. Good luck.

Reminds me of those poor kids born on 9/11.

however unfortunate your mom is upset on your birthday. you have to be understanding. losing your mother (if close to you) is one of if not the hardest things a person will ever go through.

Hey cheer up, your grandma would want for you to have a happy birthday, and your fml community wishes the same. Next year tell your mom to drink in celebration of your grandma's life, not mourn over her death. And tell your mom to celebrate the present, your grandma would want that. I really do wish you a happy birthday from the heart and a better birthday next year.

Too bad to hear. I kind of know how it is, my sister passed away on valentines day.