By a2 - 06/02/2014 06:57 - Australia - Bayswater

Today, my boyfriend admitted to subtly encouraging me to do stupid things because he finds my "bimbo moments" hilarious. FML
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You deserved it 8 241

Same thing different taste

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You have a immature boyfriend. You're his girlfriend, not his toy.

My ex used to do that to me, a main reason he is my ex. And apparently the only reason he was with me was for the entertainment and to make himself feel smarter. Some people have a sick sense of humour. :(

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Next time make it a point to have something he "encourages" you to do backfire. Like, *accidentally* trip an drop a bowl of something on him.

Lol. typical guy. we all do that to a degree.

Speak for yourself? I don't like making fools out of people as a hobby, personally.

My boyfriend and I joke and tease, but he never calls them "bimbo moments."

I agree, although it's usually a group of guys. One will say, "Hey you should do this" and someone does it. Doing it to your girlfriend, however, seems rude since she apparently didn't know he was doing that.

we do it as a group of friends. not to make fools out of one person. I apparently have goofier friends than most.

"Subtly" give him the hint you want to break up and by subtly, I mean say "I want to break up"

"I'm not here for your entertainment You don't really want to mess with me tonight"

So.... don't let him. You can think for yourself can't you.

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Hmm. Well, time to pull out the stereotypical manipulative girl shit. It should end with something along the lines of "I didn't really want a hot fudge sundae at 9 pm. I just wanted to see if I could make you go get it." Also good; "I didn't really need you to hold my purse. I just wanted to see if I could make you. Oh, and that's not my purse, I pulled it off the sale rack behind you." If calling him on his crappiness doesn't work, might be time to do a bit of turn-about-is-fair-play. And catch it on video for youtube.

he wants to dumb you down so that he feels smarter!!

people that do things like that have some sort of superiority complex. I've had an ex boyfriend try to encourage me into "bimbo moments", but I realized that people that knowingly encourage bad decisions had no place in my life. by all means, i'm not saying you should break up with him, we don't know the entire story or to what level of "bimbo" he tries to get you to, but in my case it was a no go. Fun is fun, but if it isn't any fun for you and he knows it, might want to consider some things and talk to him about it. good luck :)

They have inferiority complexes. They feel inferior so they drag people down to feel better.

superiority complexes refer to the phenomenon of covering ones feelings of inferiority by behaving superior to others. against common belief, inferiority complexes lead to a lack of belief in oneself, people with this hate on themselves and aren't known to bring others down to feel better about themselves.

Wow, that's really rude. I'm sorry. I hope he realizes that he's being immature.

Oh I realized how immature ive been and I'm going to change my ways said no honest person ever