Regardless of whether the OP or most of the commenters on this post are fat, what that girl said was extremely rude and uncalled for.

My point is that if you don't wanna hear such blunt comments (which one way or another reflect the truth though) - consider those "stops": 1. stop stuffing your face pigging out on food; (go on a diet for crying out loud!!!!) 2. stop being a vegetable and go exercise - undoubtedly, it's healthy in the first place! 2nd of, it's the only way to beauty. It's this simple)))

I'll make you a deal. I'll go on a diet and lose weight, if you agree to read some books and learn to put a coherent sentence together:)

cool! You've got yourself a deal! And now please tell me how I should have said that any differently from what I have?

I suppose it's never occurred to you that not everyone is overweight because they sit on their ass eating potato chips all day. I'm not saying that OP isn't one of those, because she might be, but there are people who have medical problems or genetically inherit a certain body type that is not fit to Hollywood standards, and therefore you guys that parade around saying "it's so simple, all you have to do is stop eating and exercise" are being quite insensitive, because it's not always that simple. And of course, it really doesn't matter whether OP spends all her time sitting on the couch stuffing her face, it still doesn't make it okay for a random person to say something so rude. It'd be the same deal if the roles were reversed and the overweight person decided to tell the thin stranger to go eat a cheeseburger.