By hunting7waves - 25/09/2015 05:31 - United States - Des Moines

Today, my boyfriend of 3 years told me he had a surprise for me at midnight. I stayed up all night, not hearing from him. Finally I get a notification. Apparently, my midnight surprise is that I'm single. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 728
You deserved it 1 896

Same thing different taste

Top comments

You're better off without him if he's such a jerk. Cheer up, get a drink with your friends and have fun! You'll find your Mr. Right :).

luckypants 17

Wow, what an asshole. Brush that off and move on; most guys would not do that to you.

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brew44 15

I'm sorry, my boyfriend recently did something similar .

I've dated many guys like this, one of which abandoned me out of nowhere and never spoke to me again as a way of breaking up. Men like this are childish and cruel, and love the idea of hurting somebody they supposedly love. In my opinion, actions like these aren't normal and there's got to be something wrong up there to enjoy these actions they play out. But believe me when I say that you ARE better off. And you WILL be okay. One day you'll find somebody who respects you, while he will continue his string of games and inevitably end up alone. Sending hugs from the UK, OP.

If you have dated "many like that" wouldn't it be that out of all those bad relationships you are the common denominator?

dragoongirl90 34

61, what a jerk thing to say. Sometimes... Good, kind hearted people get targeted by evil, callus fuckwads and we think they're different at first but they show they're true colors later. 55, I've been there. I understand how it seems like you somehow dated the same jerk over and over but with a different face. Every guy until the one I have now has been an abandoning SOB.

dragoongirl90 34

Oh and 55 I meant to add that what you said was very well said.

nitrog100 21

I agree. If you run into an a-hole in the morning, you ran into an a-hole. If you run into a-holes all day, you're the a-hole.

dragoongirl90 34

67, YOU are an a-hole for thinking that. Oh look, I just ran into another one.

#61 & #67 That's a very rude thing to say, especially when you don't know me personally, nor my experiences down to a T. I spent a long time wondering if I was in fact the problem, but I know that I am not. I am a kind person and I never gave an ounce of grief. I was simply unlucky. But not any more.

Also #83 thank you for your kind words :)

jecaann0194 5

You are better off without him!

ezrajab 22

Damn sorry op you can do better

Alright he's a dick. He did you a favour. Be glad

mads_nicole 19

Daaaaamn. He did you dirty. Sorry OP!