By Anonymous - 22/11/2010 19:52 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of over a year looked at me and said, "Sometimes I just want to hit you." FML
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perdix 29

You must be from up north. Down here in the South, he would have hit you already.

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Cubby97 4

oh really i guarentee you pissed him off. i would hit you bitch!

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Stephentyson 0

My girlfriend tells me that all of the time for no reason, seriously.

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love0128 5

I'm sure it's for no reason.

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TheIrishJaneDoe 8

136: Provided his girlfriend isn't joking, why do you assume he has to earn her anger? Women can be just as manipulative and abusive as men.

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Princess2512 5

I've said that to my bf more than once, I've never hit him, but I've wanted to lol not that big of a deal

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baderier 6

I'm sure he was kidding cause I say that to my gf all the time and she knows I'm just kidding with her, she says the same to me as well, it's all just a bit of fun.

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Hump_Zilla 0

just because you feel like hitting someone doesn't mean you will act upon it...there are plenty of times I've wished a woman was a dude so I could but I never would

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Genesis_0156 0

I hope he was just joking and meant he just gets frustrated with you sometimes if he really meant he wants to hit you he's a jackass and you need to leave him you can do better than him :)

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Kehaulani1994 0

PS I like how some of the girls calling him abusive seem likethey type that would be total bitches to their exs and are acting like the "helpless victim" when all the guy may have done was "grab my arm". the ****? If you don't know what REAL abuse is like, don't talk shit. Naive people like that piss me off.

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TheIrishJaneDoe 8

132: Sometimes guys do get shafted by overdramatization, buy you can't really make that call for the commenters here. What's the cut-off? Is it only "real" abuse after one trip to the ER? Two? Ten? That's how people wind up on the "But I love him/her; (s)he's really a good person!" cycle. And what about emotional or verbal abuse? Yes, I realize those terms are overused, like "stalker" and "creeper", but that doesn't change the fact that those types of abuse are both very real and all too common. Grabbing an arm may be minor (to you) as far as physical harm goes, but boundaries are, by their nature, relative. Stepping over them to gain control is manipulation, period. If that's happening or someone feels threatened by a loved one, they need to take action, whether they more firmly establishing where their boundaries are or, after a point which only they can determine, getting the hell out of the relationship altogether. It's about respect for your partner and for yourself.

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Jaguaress 2

Guys will tell you how they are and what they will do. Believe him. Don't think that he's kidding or that he would change for you - he won't because guys like that never do. (Same if a guy says that he can't promise that he'd never cheat, or can't promise that he won't leave. They will cheat and they will leave, so prepare for it.) Please dump him and find someone worthy of you, who won't want to hit you.

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love0128 5

Chelsey? Is this you? Hahahahaha!!!!!!!

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Agonist 0

it's true if u were in the south u probally would have been hit. hopefully he's just saying that out of frustration without true intent

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