By confusedbutloved - 08/07/2012 12:42 - United States - North Easton

Today, my boyfriend of seven months and I were looking at some pictures on his iPad. I saw a picture of a kid of about two years old that looked a little like him. I jokingly said, "What, is that your son?" Imagine my surprise when he said that it was. FML
I agree, your life sucks 32 451
You deserved it 3 893

Same thing different taste

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Well its kinda crazy that he didn't tell you sooner or you didn't find out, but how old are you guys? That's a really big factor!

kodinbug 2

Ya, he should have told you that he had a mini me a long time ago... Honestly if he didn't tell you that he had a son, what else is he not telling you. Red flag.

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OP if I were you I'd kick his ass out of my house! Unless of course he had a reasonable explanation for it all.

He should have been told u he had a child. Bt it's only bad if u don't like children

There is NO circumstance that justify his deception for that long. your name "confusedbutloved" suggests to me that you are somehow so weak or desperate that you're going to end up being the victim of this guys BS for a long time. hope your insurance covers all the counselling you'll be needing.

Some girls are afraid of commitment and he didn't want you to run off before giving him a chance... Still, I can imagine your surprise lol

This exact thing has happened to me with a guy who I'd been dating about 6 months, and we ended up breaking up. BIG RED FLAG, op!

littlexlune 16

Single parents can date, too. Whether or not the news changes your relationship is up to you.

For all you know he could have had a wife and a kid before you and they left him or died in some accident and he's trying To move on but keeps pictures of them

CaroAurelia 12

Are you upset because he has a kid or because he didn't tell you in seven months? Because the son was born before you guys got together so he didn't do wrong by you. He probably should have told you that he had a son, although I can understand not introducing you to him if your boyfriend wants to make sure it's serious before you two meet.

CaroAurelia 12

Um, wow, #161. I agree that he should have told her, but that is way harsh. It's not like the baby was conceived during their time together.