By confusedbutloved - 08/07/2012 12:42 - United States - North Easton

Today, my boyfriend of seven months and I were looking at some pictures on his iPad. I saw a picture of a kid of about two years old that looked a little like him. I jokingly said, "What, is that your son?" Imagine my surprise when he said that it was. FML
I agree, your life sucks 32 451
You deserved it 3 893

Same thing different taste

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Well its kinda crazy that he didn't tell you sooner or you didn't find out, but how old are you guys? That's a really big factor!

kodinbug 2

Ya, he should have told you that he had a mini me a long time ago... Honestly if he didn't tell you that he had a son, what else is he not telling you. Red flag.

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That fact that you two have been together for seven months and he hasn't mentioned ONCE that he has a two year old son?

And getting younger by the hour, apparently...

If it makes you feel better OP, my favorite teacher got married at 18 to her husband who had a toddler son, and now she's in her mid-thirties, and they are still married have two young daughters together. :) So don't get discouraged, it can be done. Your kids with him might not be his first but they will be the first you have together. Good luck to you both.

How did you go 7 months without knowing he had a kid?

this is why you should always ask questions first

Bend_over 4

Uh, really? Didn't you say in a comment before that you're 20 and he's 21?

I agree with #60. Makes me think there's a bigger chance he'll leave other stuff out since Op had to find out on accident about this rather than him confront her first.

b_rad_fml 4

You don't mention your ages or if your boyfriend claimed to be a virgin when you met him, but if you've known this guy for only six months, why are you surprised that he has a history before you?

fat_bastard_607 0

maybe the kid is dead. maybe this was his way of bringing up the subject. I love all the relationship experts giving out free FML advice tho... totally legit.