Did you then inform him that you can only be in a relationship if two people agree, and that you could no longer agree to waste anymore of your time with his disrespect?

So? Wanna go out?

That's your cue to leave. Sorted.

He is messed up on more than one level. I would assume it's an unsaid monogamous relationship unless both parties decide it was open/swing. I think he's cryptically saying he's "cheating" and denies any wrong doing. Move on from this wacko and get an STD blood panel done!

I hope it's not the same guy I just dumped last week saying the same thing!

Someone wants to cheat without feeling guilty.

He rocks! Either he is free now or he has it all and no way to get himself in trouble.

Smart man, but still messed up You'll find someone better though no worries

Sounds to me like someone needs to get his ass dumped. He's a jackass OP. I'm sure you could do better.

Time to make him an ex-boyfriend unless you feel the same way.