By wondermoose - 09/08/2016 06:54

Today, my boyfriend was truly upset because I refused to pee on him. FML
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wondermoose 28

Hello, OP here. My boyfriend and I are very open and communicate about what we want to try and what we don't want to try. We've been together three years and pretty much will try anything as long as we are both comfortable. We were in the shower during this conversation and it started as a joke for me to pee on him and I told him I didn't want to but I think he was offended because he thought I was feeling self conscious in front of him so he felt like he wasn't doing his 'boyfriend duty' by making me feel okay with that... I know sounds strange. But we're over it and he actually doesn't want me to pee on him at all. Go figure. Thanks for the jokes and advice to you all!

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Tripartita 44

How upset was he? Did the waterworks start—not… you know what I mean!

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graphicstyle7 17

Google "Dan Savage". He has a great advice column for sex. I've read him so often, I can pretty much tell you what he would say. He'd say it's ok for your boyfriend to ask, no harm in asking. BUT, if he's putting you on a guilt-trip or trying to manipulate you into doing something you are not turned on by, it's time for him to cool off and consider your feelings. It's ok to have a kink and try to explore it, but if you're with someone who's not into it, it's not ok to get upset at the other person. In other words, if this means a LOT to him, your relationship may be on the way out, but maybe that is just as well. You have just as much right to your feelings as he does.

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justinb97 16

This actually happened to me before. I broke up with him after the 4th time he asked

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lalafalla 6

My Emmett quite enjoys this, too. My dear, it isn't so bad. After 50 years, nothing shocks me anymore!

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