By blink_kid - 10/08/2012 12:57 - United Kingdom - Bathgate

Today, my boyfriend, who lives 100 miles away and whom I haven't seen in 2 months, told me he was visiting my city with some friends. I assumed this was an opening to an invitation, but no, he just asked me about the best places to get drunk. FML
I agree, your life sucks 25 694
You deserved it 3 233

Same thing different taste

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Give him the addresses to all the most popular gay strip bars. That should make his night.

I'm sure he really does care about you. He just has to be drunk first.

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I don't think he knows that you are his girl friend. Stalk much?

jwally726 0

Does he know you guys are dating?

I don't get it. 100 miles isn't exactly far. Don't you have cars or trains in Scotland? It's not "long distance" really. Neither of you can be that interested if you haven't seen each other for 2 months. No wonder he doesn't fancy seeing you when in your area. Maybe his friends have made more of an effort to see him.

My fiance and I live 750 miles away, and about 1000 when he's at work yet we still see each other anywehre from 1-3 months, depending on how much work he has. And my first boyfriend was about 250-300 miles away and we still saw each other every 1-2 months, when neither of us had our own cars at the time. If you aren't going to put your effort into it then don't complain about it. Your boyfriend is still an asshole though for not wanting to see you.

Jeffers123 5

Y'all need to chill the hell out, u have no clue what he does for a living... For christ sake he prob talks to her every day... He could just be needed a night out for once... He old be in the god damn military, no not in Iraq or afghanistan, and doesn't have time for It... So chill the hell out

If someone's priority, ever, is drinking above effort into any relationship (friendship, family or romantic) then they have a serious problem.

Long distance realationships don't work ydi

LDRs do work. I was in one for a few years before I finally was able to move to be with my girl. We're still together now. They're not easy, but they do work

Abfootball 1

Damn that means he doesn't care. F him and move on you don't deserve that

blink_kid 32

Just to clarify for people who think I'm a stalker and don't think he knows it's a relationship; my boyfriend and I go to university together for most of the year, it's not a full-time long distance relationship. And we haven't seen each other for so long because we've both been working full time over summer.

Babes, you have answered your own question & it would seem that he is just not that into you. Move on to some other beautiful young Scottish man! ;)