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By anonymous - 02/09/2011 22:02 - United States

Today, my child-hating friend who vowed never to have any no matter what, announced that she's pregnant. I've had three IVF cycles, spent $90k in fertility treatments, and still can't conceive. FML
I agree, your life sucks 52 746
You deserved it 4 830

Same thing different taste

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holyshiizzle 0

It's sad, but oftentimes the ones who don't want children or plan for them that end up having them. On a related note, sometimes I think that if anybody who's stupid enough should be forcibly euthanized. Then I start thinking of all that stuff about human rights and government oppression and all that, but lately this website has me thinking: **** them, some people should just never be allowed to breed. It's for the good of the human race. And numbers five, ten, and twenty-seven, I have a feeling you're going to lose your child having ability first.

Did you know that hitler's first foray into murdering people was neutering those that were mentally and physically challenged? It escalated from there as I'm sure you know. It might seem like it's for a greater good, but where does one draw the line?

Easy. It's when you: A. Stop discriminating against people based on stuff like their criminal history, certain sexual behaviors (i.e. pedophiles and rapists), maturity, work ethic, moral fiber, etc. And/or B. Start discriminating based on race, religion, sex, age, economic situation, color of skin, disabilities, etc. Plus don't pull that "comparing things to Nazis and/or Hitler" crap on me. Every time I hear that from someone, I automatically start treating like them shit (in real life too). Fair warning, stop that "Reductio ad Hitlerum" (people everywhere get so pissed off about this, there's a literal term just for it) or I'll take your arguments about as seriously as I take Scientology.

ilikepieandpie 11

You'll be the first euthanized. Then we'll work our way up the gov't once we've made sure you were in pain up until successful euthanization.

having a baby will wreck your body. just adopt one

Skyanne 11

Who gives a shit? **** you for needing a perfect body. Who are you, Jillian Micheals? Go home, asshole.

If you maintain healthy eating habits during your pregnancy and exercise after having the baby you can lose the weight. Some people believe that having a child is a little more important than having a perfect body.

aznpiboy24 5

Wtf why would she adopt a 21 year old woman

I've seen really fit women who have biological kids.

minarae 0

I don't understand why more people don't adopt. Why spend so much money when millions of kids need homes ?

It's the desire to carry on your line. Essentially based on a deep unconscious set of egotistic ideals that perpetuates the unending cycle of selfishness that is the ignorant unhappiness in most people creating a belief that propagating will cure your ailing soul. Ahhhh brutal honesty.

I agree that more people should adopt, but it's not always as easy as you might think. It's a long process and costs thousands of dollars. Not $90k dollars but still quite a bit.

*I think, people really want to be able to know they gave birth to this child and, it's emotional distressing after a misscarriage or failure to get pregnant to adopt straight after when you've wanted a baby for so long... Just a thought

Skyanne 11

While I do agree, you never know what you're getting into. You have no idea of their medical history such as having a bipolar parent, compared to conceiving a child yourself. ): it's all just a really sad situation.

simplylost643 0

59, You sir/madam are obviously educated beyond your intelligence. I can assure you, using alot of "fancy" words does not make your comment any more appropriate/intelligent. Your comment is both foolhardy and immature. Please but down the Carl yung, and back away slowly!

EXACTLY. Adoption is a completely unknown quantity.

Awww that really sucks Don't give up yet thought

KatyB_fml 0
Ray9889 8

You've got a good point. But then there is also the feeling that one would feel bringing a child into the world. You know? Like adopting is a good option, but some people want to have a child of their blood.

perdix 29

Start hating kids and then you'll get pregnant. It's cheaper and more effective than IVF.