If he can't give your dad a respectable hand shake the. He doesn't deserve you.

I don't think that's how it works

1. Some Dads are dicks. They choose a victim, and try to elicit a look of dismay on their face. They find that expression more rewarding than a baby's smile. If your dad is such a person, the 'gay' is just a convenient slur; in a few year's he'll be using 'paedophile'. Either way, if that's your Dad's character, you should have recognised it and warned the bf ahead of time. 2. Some boyfriends are dicks. If he's a player, a small challenge is often enough to have him go hunting where it's easier. So he leaves you before breaking your heart rather than after. Parenting accomplished. 3. If he doesn't have the character to withstand a small challenge from your dad, he probably doesn't have the character to be more than a fair weather friend. Best to dissuade him in the first place. Expect this sort of challenge via your dad. This is your opportunity to judge the bf's character too. See how he handles stress and often unexpected challenges.

Dear OP.... Sorry that you're dating a woman

Dude take your Dad's advice and run. you don't want a pansy ass who can't even shake a hand. ew.

Tell your BF that the next time he shakes hands with your father he should compliment him on his strong, masculine handshake. (preferrably in a low seductive voice). Always mess with the minds of ignorant people!

You're dad is an idiot.

I learned from a cop to always have a firm handshake. I've never given a wimpy handshake since then and that was a couple years ago.

Your boyfriend deserves it OP. It's not hard to give a firm handshake.

You must be from the south...cause that's TRUE! Lol