*****!!!

You can't be up your kid's butt 24/7 so even if she did everything she possibly could, she can't help it if her daughters being a stupid *****. If I had done that, my parents would have torn me a new ass, and locked me in the cellar til I turned 18 and I can't say I'd blame them. Someone needs to teach this girls something about 1)not being a **** and 2) having some fricken respect for your parents.

Holy crap. I'm 20. If I ever had a child who's had sex before they were 18 I'd disown them.

It's no one's fault the girl is like that, but her own. I say she was influenced by peer pressure or something. Usually, girls don't do that kind of stuff at that age.

Don't listen to all the dumbasses telling you not to punish her. First of all you should have a serious talk about sex and birth control, letting her know that she can tell you anything because you're her mother. Then whip her ass till it's purple and ground her 'cause she's wayyy tooo young to be having sex!!!

Wow she's still a kid and she having sex.

Wow, people aren't very open minded are they... 13 is an 'okay' age, just as long as you're taking measures to not get knocked up. I personally wouldn't really go for it til 16 though.

i am discusted with the comments on here about bad parenting i lost my virginity at 14 (its been 9 years and im still with the guy so no im not a ***** like some of the other comments say) that does not make my mom a failure as a parent my mom is the most amazing person in the world for putting up with my rebelious side she did everything right. i had sex at 14 because everyone was doing it and i didnt have alot of friends and just wanted to fit in,plus i was a bit rebelious, but in doing so i met the most amazing man who i am still with today.

You know what, as a teenager i'm disgusted by the amount of narrow minded abuse the OP and her daughter are getting. You say the Mother is a "bad parent" just because her daughter had sex underage. I say that's bullshit; as hard as, I'm sure, she tried you can't control every little thing your kids do. Sure, you can arm them with the facts about sex - which she never said she DIDN'T do, for all you know she could of given her daughter a well informed sex education lesson - but you ultimately can't stop them from going through with it. Without of course resorting to locking them up and throwing away the key. Kids experiment, rebel and sometimes **** up. That's what they do, and, hopefully, they learn from these experiences. OP, it's not your fault. She made the decision to do it, you could never stop her. But lowering to the level of calling a teenage girl a **** because she had sex? I am willing to bet that a lot of you lost your virginity at a young age. I know my parents did, and yes, so did I. I am not a ****, in fact, i'm still with the guy I lost it to after 4 years. You don't know this girl. Maybe she felt under a lot of pressure from this society that's so focused upon being "sexy" that she did it to fit it? In that case, you shouldn't be abusing her; we should be looking at this world in general and being disgusted by it. Most of you need to get down from your high horses and take a good long look at yourselves. Yes, she had sex at 13, and admittedly from the childish way she broke the news to her Mother, it probably wasn't a wise choice. But maybe the OP will talk to her and she'll learn. You people, preaching about what a **** she is and boasting about the fact your still virgins as if it somehow makes you better then people who've had sex, (it doesn't, by the way, it just means we've just made one different choice in our lives). You people are the ones I'm disgusted by. Abusing a teenage girl over the internet about one silly mistake and reprimanding everyone who's ever made the same choice with your "holier then thou" attitudes; hiding behind a mask because you know you could never say any of this stuff in public is tragic. Maybe you're the ones who need to grow up.

wow !