By ali456 - 01/12/2013 15:16 - United Kingdom - Dudley

Today, my fiancé left me waiting at the train station for two and a half hours because he offered his ex-girlfriend a lift to her friends wedding that was a few cities away. I normally wouldn't have minded, but I'm 6 months pregnant and it was pouring with rain. FML
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For those who are saying what he did was 'quite fishy', I have to agree. His excuse was, and I quote, "I only realised I had to pick you up half way through the journey, and there was no point turning back". I'm currently not speaking to him, for pretty obvious reasons, and he's now staying at his parents house. The reason I 'normally wouldn't have minded' is because if I wasn't pregnant, and if it wasn't raining, I easily could've caught the bus or walked home and sorted him out afterwards! He is also friends with his ex, and I've met her and spoken to her on quite casual terms before. And for the people who called me a 'chump' and said that I 'shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place', thank you - I'll keep it in mind for next time!

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Wow he just sounds like an inconsiderate asshole...

evan_7899 28

That's terrible, people like that are not worht your time OP

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Wait a sec... You would be completely fine with sitting in a train station for 2 1/2 hours while your fiance gallivants around the UK with his ex if it weren't raining? Here's a tip: It is NEVER okay for your S.O. to leave you sitting around while out playing with an ex! Got it?

If he decided to give his ex a lift instead of his pregnant soon to be wife... he clearly still has feelings for his ex

itcomesinthrees 10

Did he intentionally leave you waiting, or did something happen along the way to make him late? If he had intended on being there to get you and traffic made him late I wouldn't be as mad.

What a dick. No offense, but you sound like a chump.

Maybe it was an accident. It still doesn't make it right, but if it wasn't on purpose then maybe you shouldn't dump him. If he knew then he's a jerk and you should really dump him.

I'm not sure who to blame this one on. I mean you ALLOWED him to go with his EX-GIRLFRIEND!!!! still he is very much a dick for just leaving you there.

I hate it when people say "you allow your SO to do blah". Why is it my business to stop them from doing something? They are an independent human being. I understand discussing why it may not be a good idea, but saying "you're not allowed" is just wrong.

Quiet_one 22

Agreed, 92. You tell your children and pets they're not allowed to do things, not your SO. You and your SO should be equals, so you can discuss these things and make your opinions known ("I'd prefer you didn't do X because Y" "It makes me uncomfortable when X" etc.), but trying to straight out dictate who they can and can't associate with is not a sign of a healthy relationship.

numberswoman 14

Why couldn't SHE take the train???

You should be his priority not his ex-girlfriend!

perdix 29

You don't have him very well-... *Lowers sunglasses* trained.