By ali456 - 01/12/2013 15:16 - United Kingdom - Dudley
ali456 tells us more.
For those who are saying what he did was 'quite fishy', I have to agree. His excuse was, and I quote, "I only realised I had to pick you up half way through the journey, and there was no point turning back". I'm currently not speaking to him, for pretty obvious reasons, and he's now staying at his parents house. The reason I 'normally wouldn't have minded' is because if I wasn't pregnant, and if it wasn't raining, I easily could've caught the bus or walked home and sorted him out afterwards! He is also friends with his ex, and I've met her and spoken to her on quite casual terms before. And for the people who called me a 'chump' and said that I 'shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place', thank you - I'll keep it in mind for next time!
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why would you ever be ok with this? :0 your far too nice
Call an ex boyfriend to pick you up...
Yes! See how he likes it! If he fusses over it, your point is proven.
I understand he was trying to help, but you his fiance, you should come first. Not his ex. That's ****** up, She's an ex for a reason. That's soooo not cool, and you're pregnant too. Smh... What kinda boyfriend /fiance is he?...
Well, now you know where you fall on his priorities list. Sounds like he will always put his ex-girlfriend before you.
like really?? he would rather be with his ex than his next..messed up.
Beat his ass
Give him a black eye. He deserves that.
Did he know op was going to need a ride when he left? Dealing with pregnant women is interesting, they'll do things like stand in the rain for 2 and a half hours rather than find another ride and you'd better believe you'll be hearing about it later if you're not available when summoned.
I have to agree, there may be more to this story - was there no one else to call? When did she tell him she needed a ride? Maybe he was already en route with the ex when she called. I agree he sounds like an ass on first glance. But there are 2 sides to every story
She shouldn't have to schedule another ride because her bf's ex needs one. Or, if hers did back out and she called him after the fact it still shouldn't matter. He should have just dropped his ex off at the wedding and let her find another ride home so his gf wouldn't have had to wait in the rain as long.
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Wow he just sounds like an inconsiderate asshole...
That's terrible, people like that are not worht your time OP