It's tempting to say it's your own fault. If you were better than her ex boyfriend she would want to take you, not him. Putting that aside and trying to look on positive side, at least you know where you stand with her. Relationship not going to drag on without it going anywhere and you know it's finished between you and time to look for someone else who will think your the best (but remember why did recent girlfriend want her ex back and make sure next one won't feel that way).

You appear pretty calm post incident and non-committal to everyone's status, so I assume part of you is enjoying this? Do you prefer the roll of cuckold to equal partner?

WTF ?!!! Time to plan your next move, OP! Good luck!

Dear God, It hurts, but thank you for getting that bimbo out of my life and helping me get back on the right track. Amen.

I am sorry OP, I truly feel your pain. I recently just found out my 3 year girlfriend now (ex) just cheated on me. However use it as motivation to speed up the grieving process.

Everybody knows it's easier to make somebody go "missing" in international waters. Don't listen to these suckers, OP. It's all a ruse to get him killed, not a romantic getaway at all.

I don't know why but I read this as sister the first time. I'm sorry your girlfriend's such an ass, you deserve better.

Dump her ass first

Dump her first so she doesn't have the satisfaction

I hope its ex girlfriend, OP