OP - That’s terrible. But it’s less bad than a divorce with children if that’s any consolation... Do not be surprised if you soon learn that your now X-girlfriend has a boyfriend. Many times people are unhappy but don’t think they have other options - Then another person comes along who seems to offer what they were missing and away they go. That sucks if you are the one left without having been told what you needed to work on together. But if it’s any consolation, sometimes that person later discovers that the qualities they were taking for granted were really important to them and they have their regrets. But do not wait on that with false hope, look elsewhere for someone who will treasure you for who you are. And just maybe work on finding ways to please your sexual partner - Start by asking what they like.

What ten seconds of penetration doesn’t please her????...oh, sorry, wrong fml...

Better to find out now

Sounds like she found someone else (even if she says otherwise). Sorry dude, it's crap situation but I promise there is someone out there that would love and appreciate you that you could love and propose to too. But for now, go grab that strange!

You got lucky

Although. this is obviousiy painful right now.., you will be better off from it. Going into a marriage, it takes two. You would of carried a majority of the weight until you either left or just settled. May your future be bright & you find your true soulmate.

It sounds like she found another guy and is saying excuses more to herself than you. :/ Sorry man.

Sounds like she was looking for a ton of excuses to dump you. Maybe she's got a little something on the side...