By that was mine - 15/05/2015 22:26 - United States - Cherry Hill

Today, my mom cleaned out my bank account, saying my "no-good dad" owes her child support and that she'll get it one way or another. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 895
You deserved it 2 351

Same thing different taste

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A07 48

I'm pretty sure she's not allowed to do that, talk to a lawyer OP

That money is supposed to go to YOU, or at least to taking care of you. This makes me so mad..

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So she's taking your money because she's not getting money that is meant for you? Great logic!

Bitch! It's called "Child Support"...Not "Loser Mom Support". She shouldn't be touching your money OP. Don't let her get away with this.

Wow I'd get that money back its your money get it back

wow, not like you choose for your mom and dad to do the nasty and not use protection... F HER LIFE

Call the police that is super illegal. But this is why you don't put your mother in your bank account.

ViviMage 39

Take your mother off your bank account ASAP!! And call the police for theft. And even if the father files for bankruptcy, it doesn't excuse child support or student loans, he owes that for life. If you are over 14 or 18, you have to pursue the child support yourself.

GamerPerson 19

Report her ass for theft. If she has beef with your dad, she takes that matter up with him. Not you, OP.

I hope she's using it to sue your dad...But I know she's not?

OP, I get this more than most. I'm 36 now, but I'd saved from the time I was 13 to buy my own car. I finally did so at 17. Being a minor, I wasn't legally allowed to register it, insure or title in my name. So we titled it to my dad. My parents also divorced when I was 17. Mom demanded that dad sign my car over to her, since I was going to live with her until I left for college. Dad agreed to so long as she agreed to sign the car over to me once I turned 18. Mom agreed to. Then she asked me to drop her car off for an oil change while I was at school. I did so, as the quik-lube was right across the street from my school. While I was at school that day, My Mom promptly sold my car for $1500 to a lady she worked with for HER 16 year old son. I'd scrimped and saved for 4 years to make enough money to pay $4500 for that car. I asked her about the money, and she said "17 years back rent, you're getting off cheap." Then she used the money to take a solo vacation to Hawaii. She had the gaul to act surprised when I'd moved to my dad's while she was gone. Even called the cops on my dad for custodial interference. And she wonders why i have trust issues. (We eventually got the car back, after my dad went to them and told them what she'd done, and bought it back. Even then they'd refused to sell it until their son said he wasn't going to drive it, knowing what had happened.) My advice, get away from her. I know she's your mom, but to blatantly steal from you even though the law may say it's okay. When people are in that much emotional pain, they lose sight of what matters, all they care about is "winning" They don't see who they're hurting in the process, only that they 'got even'

I know she's your mom, but you shouldn't have given her access in the first place. YDI & FYL.

Have you ever thought to yourself that said bank account was likely created by OP's mother or father?