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Your mum is stupid, is what. (And so are a lot of people posting here). Listen up: ALL PSYCHOLOGICAL STUDIES DONE ON RAPE SHOW UNEQUIVOCALLY THAT RAPE IS ABOUT POWER, CONTROL, AND ANGER. IT IS NOT ABOUT LUST. YOU ARE NO MORE LIKELY TO GET RAPED IF YOU ARE PRETTY, YOUNG, OLD, UGLY, MODEST, SCANTILY CLAD, ETC. THE YOUNGEST PERSON TO GET RAPED WAS UNDER A YEAR OLD, THE OLDEST WAS EIGHTY-SOMETHING. MAYBE THE OLD WOMAN WAS WEARING A PROVOCATIVE GRANNY SHAWL, HUH? DON'T YOU DARE INSULT WOMEN (AND THE MEN WHO GET RAPED TOO) BY SUGGESTING THEY DESERVE OR ASKED TO BE RAPED. IF RAPE WAS ABOUT BEING "A TEASE" WHY IS IT SO COMMON IN COUNTRIES WHERE WOMEN HAVE TO WEAR A BURQUA? PS. You could also say that going out and getting drunk leaves you more vulnerable. This is true. But also beside the point really, because almost all sexual abuse is perpetrated by someone the victim knows.
You win 1000 internets for referencing the fact that men are also raped
OP, if you are reading this, your mother needs to read this comment.
Not a fan of ALL CAPS, but you still win.
You're very right number 32. To OP, your mom must be super conservative/screwed up/dumb. Making out with a boyfriend is normal. This is so sad...
I think it's more common for women to get raped. I'm not saying this to be sexist or to insult men, but to rape a man, you would probably need a special date rape drug that allows him to be aroused while unsonscious. I only say this because (usually) if a guy isn't into it at least a little bit, than hsi parts won't work...
I KNOW I SH... er... shouldn't have. Ahhh, that caps lock button. I'm only allowed to use it twice per month.
#79 You could still force a man to have anal or oral sex with you, but yes, rapes against men are less common, you're right. The statistics are: 1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men will be sexually assaulted in their lifetimes [Rainn.org]. #82 Not entirely, when you consider that when people are raped they are very often also badly injured. But you are right, I should have said "ignorant" not "stupid", they're not the same thing. I guess her mum's generation would not have been spoken to about this in school etc. Mine was... but back in her day there was a lot of misinformation and the whole thing was a taboo subject.
100% agreed. And to go off of that, it's not just power and control, but access to women's bodies, too. I'd go as far to say that rape occurs more often in countries where women are made to cover up more, such as a burqua, most likely by their husbands. marital rape to them is an oxymoron. It's not just the sense of society excusing the rapists behavior by blaming the victim (because if it's the woman's fault, then it can't possibly be a problem with society, so long as you don't "ask for it" you'll be safe), but also believing that men should have access to a woman's body whenever he wants, no matter what she's wearing. but they don't have that right... no one does.
Not true. A guy can be slipped Viagra from a girl, and also stimulation usually works to get and keep a guy hard. Also, there is anal rape. They are statistically less likely to be raped, but it doesn't mean that they don't deserve justice. Look at that crazy Russian chick who locked up that bugler and raped him for like 4 days straight this is to 79BTW
I liked your mom's preamble
WTF?! Your mom must be BFF with the Duggar family, eh? If you're going to college, you should just make out with some random guy, take pictures and send them to your mom. It's not like she can legally do anything to stop you. What a ******* crazy woman!
Your mom is a ****. I hope she gets brutally raped just for saying that to you. Mainly because she reminds me of my mom who, upon finding out I was raped and almost strangled to death last year, said "Oh, well it was your fault anyway. It's always partly the woman's fault. You should have known better than to let it happen." Sounds like your mom is the type who would be exactly the same way.
I would also like to partake in ass kicking.
May I participate in your mother's ass kicking as well?
Aww thank you all very much:) She definitely has issues, for sure. I try to give her the benefit of the doubt since she's in her 60s and in her time I guess things were different. But, she's still a bitch. Never thought people wanting to kick my mom's ass would warm my heart...no doubt I have issues too! LOL
I'm so sorry you had that experience. :( As a fellow survivor, I hope you've found some peace. I think wishing rape on someone else is a little harsh, though. I don't feel anyone ever deserves that.
I was raped and sexually assaulted, but if my mom ever found out, she would murder the guy.(Literally, she would kill him, and her knowing where he lives would make it easier. I was afraid to tell my boyfriend for the same reason) I'm sorry, what happened to you is SO much worse than what happened to me. :,( Internet hugs. I will join in the asskicking too!
What you said is a contradition of terms. You can't say that a women is never responsible for being raped and then say that certain women deserve to be raped. That doesn't work.
Nah... You don't have issues, people who are pissed about their parents don't actually mind that others insult their parents. So, if someone calls you a "son of a bitch" you'll know it's true... But hey! I got an idea! How about this? How about you send your mom a link to this specific FML and below the link you write "You see #47's comment? That's me." I can already see it comming. "Today, my daughter sent me an e-mail with a link to this site. Below the link read the line 'You see #47's comment? That's me.' I checked it. Now everyone thinks I'm a bitch and wants to 'kick my ass'. FML."
I would love to meet your mom, she sounds like she has an awesome way of phrasing things.
You just made my day. I thought my brother woke me up really creepily this morning (he started whispering my name-not that bad but unsettling to hear first thing in the morning...), but your mom is so misguided it's honestly really amusing.
Hmm, kinda reminds me of an awkward conversation I had with my mom shortly after she met my then new girlfriend, she very dead seriously asks me if we've had sex yet, and me not wanting to talk to her about that really at all, I said no, and her response was to sympathetically say don't worry, I'm sure you will soon... Mother's can be very strange
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That's not okay. That is seriously NOT okay. Verbal abuse, FTL.
I'm pretty sure that making out does not = slutty.