Communication is key. Newsflash: guys have feelings too. And physical rejection feels like a personal rejection. Now, assuming that you are old enough to have sex and this is not one of your first experiences with a guy: you played this wrong and he obviously is hurt. Btw, third date = sex

I read the fml too quickly and it sounded like your dad was trying to do that.

Ugh I hate when shit like that happens

What an idiot. I hope he never gets laid.

He does realize friend zone and 'take it slow' aren't the same thing right?

I love how there are large quantities of men trying to justify the "friend-zoned" thing. Boys, women are human not (as someone put it) vending machines. Just because you are nice to someone you have a crush on doesn't mean they have to spread their legs and reciprocate your feelings for them. You're a douche potato if you believe the friend zone thing is a real thing. It's sad that more and more individuals are starting to follow this concept. Seems like every girl/guy that says "no" is a "bitch" and/or "dick." When will this phase pass?

The "entitlement" could be a side effect of the classical American way of dating. where the who asks the other one out. is expected to pay for the date. With every date the courting part has some kind of investment and it feels bad to get nothing out. Its still wrong though. in regards to the FML. OPs date is a dick for trying to get her drunk. And in my opinion general speed isnt the issue but rather different speeds. If you have two people that need time or go fast thats fine. Its bad if you have two different speeds so either one has to slow down or the other has to speed up. Making it for the changing part quite uncomfortable.

Should respond, "Don't flatter yourself douchebag, you're not my friend. You're just a loser that tries to get girls drunk then take advantage of them. Get lost."

Slow means slow.

Wow, that's harsh OP. Try to call out his bullshit on his post