Holy ****. I am not one to slag fatties for funsies. But if you're 5'2 and weight 220... Baby, you are kidding yourself. You cannot be perfectly healthy. I am 5'8 and if I would weight 220 (I don't!), I would pretty surely feel like crap. And what exactly do you mean by "no big heart complications"? Isn't that implying you have at least 'minor' heart problems? Of course you would have. Your heart has to keep a body running that is about double the weight it should be. How can your heart not have troubles? I don't care how you look. I bet there are plenty of guys who want you. Good for you. But it certainly ain't healthy.

Unless he has tons of muscle.

Big chicks are NOT necessarily better. That's a subjective opinion that you're shoving on us because you're a bigger woman. Some men like bigger women, but I bet they're intimidated at least a little by something that looks like it can crush them, unless they're also big.

Only black guys like thick white girls anyways, and who wants that?

5 miles isn't much. Go, get your thyroid checked if you can't lose weight. That will most likely sort you out. If you can't lose weight for medical reasons, don't use it as an excuse. Sort out the medical reasons, because if you don't, you will get sicker and sicker. Assuming from your nick you're born 1989? Well, just because you consider yourself healty at 21/22, doesn't mean you will not get serious health problems as a result in the years to come. You really are kidding yourself here.

Sometimes yes, but many people will use the slightest medical problem as an excuse to be obese and what not, and many times the medical issues are caused by the obesity. People that aren't losing weight just want an excuse instead of accepting responsibility. P.S. Try running or jogging as much of that 5 miles as you can, and lift weights a bit. That will dramatically increase the number of calories you burn a day. Also drink a lot more water, it helps with speed up your metabolism and makes you less hungry.