Holy shit that ruined your whole entire life

It's kind of sad most of these comments go from one extreme to another. Either 'does it matter? If you love her and your kid I don't see what the big deal it' and 'get the hell out of there OP. This ruined your life, now you're free'. I didn't read the FML like "I've just thrown away my whole life on a kid that isn't mine" but "The kid I love and have raised for 14 years isn't biologically related to me". Of course, this isn't going to stop you being a father. Some people on FML seem to think that it's easy to just walk away from being a parent. Walking away, as I'm sure you know, would just punish a kid that had no say in the matter. Not saying you would do that, just adressing commenters. Take it from someone who met their bio father when they were 15- biology doesn't have to mean shit. But what your wife did was cruel and disgusting, to both you and your child. She did a horrible thing, let's not pretend otherwise.

I'm not trying tm be mean but did I read it wrong or does this mean if it is yours you were two when they were born?

dude, cut her head off. she basically changed your life and ruined it because shes selfish and an idiot.

Jerry! Jerry! :)

I smell a divorce.

Did her confession involve telling you to you face or did it involve a priest? If it involved a priest ydi, you don't listen to those. If she had the guts after 14 years to tell you wow, my condolences. At least you're still young.

So you were 2 when she was born? How old is your Wife?

@215 he was 16 when the kid was born and the kid is now 14. that would make the OP 30 :P

such bullshit. if you just found out your teenage son isn't yours, you wouldn't be posting it on fml.