Love: Today, the guy I have loved for seven years asked me to move...

By Anonymous - 23/05/2011 07:25 - United States

Today, the guy I have loved for seven years asked me to move in with him. Turns out he only did so because he needed someone to pay the rent since he's quit his job. FML

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You deserved it 4 946

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By Anonymous - 31/03/2020 05:00

Today, my boyfriend admitted that he never thought we had a future together. He just wanted to move in together so he could get "cheaper rent for a while." FML

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By Anonymous - 30/09/2015 15:08 - United Kingdom - Paisley

Today, my boyfriend of 8 years moved in with two other women. He's spent the past 2 years telling me he can't afford to move out of his parent's house. FML

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By Anonymous - 05/09/2019 00:01

Today, I asked the person I love to commit to me. Instead, he packed his shit and moved out. FML

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By Anonymous - 23/04/2024 16:00 - United States - Auburn

Today, I found out the person that I’ve been casually seeing has decided he wants to live with me. I found this out when I asked him to go home after two weeks sleeping over, and he told me he'd already moved out of his mom’s. I sublet a single bedroom and have barely enough room for myself. FML

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By Awkward - 04/02/2010 16:03 - France

Today, my boyfriend broke up with me, claiming moving in was a bad idea and he is the type who needs his privacy. It was his idea to move in, he had to convince me. Now we are stuck, under lease together for the next 6 months. FML

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By Anonymous - 15/09/2009 10:53 - United States

Today, my best friend, the man who I've been in love with for nine years, finally told me he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Unfortunately, it was while he was using me to practice proposing to his girlfriend. FML

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By Just me - 09/09/2011 23:48 - United States

Today, I found out that the man who offered to put up the woman I love in exchange for me helping out with his rent, has in fact been her "other" boyfriend since before she moved in. FML

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By SkinsCastSelection - 17/01/2011 22:50 - France

Today, my boyfriend moved. He moved from my room... to my housemate's room. FML

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By krisest1988 - 07/05/2016 21:34 - United States - Columbus

Today, my boyfriend came home from a two week vacation and told me I need to move. FML

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By ahhhboys - 27/11/2010 19:12 - Romania

Today, my boyfriend of six months said he wanted to take our relationship one step further. I thought he was going to ask me to move in. He meant he wanted to fart in front of me. FML

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Rickly 0

Monday 23 May 2011 16:05

Don't let him use you.

angelsara91 0

Monday 23 May 2011 16:06

if u move in I'll come s.l.a.p u myself

Comments

hiyourcute 0

Monday 23 May 2011 16:17

You picked a winner...

SmexiLexii 3

Monday 23 May 2011 16:17

He is,indeed,a keeper.Good job you are a great judge of character! :)

not_funny_at_all 3

Monday 23 May 2011 16:23

I hope you realize that he is using you. Don't be blinded by love.

Ugi 26

Monday 23 May 2011 16:27

Everyone seems to assume that this guy knows how you feel. However, perhaps he doesn't. If he does and doesn't reciprocate then moving in because he wants some rent money or a bed-fellow will only break your heart - how will you feel when he brings a girl home some night? If he doesn't know then for hell's sake tell him before you move in. Otherwise, see above.

raider27 7

Monday 23 May 2011 16:28

There's a positive in this. You see him every day, assuming you're willing to pay hundreds to do so. Overall, not worth it.

Egnar 19

Monday 23 May 2011 16:28

The wording of this FML makes me wonder if this is 2 people dating OR if this is another one of those "I've loved this guy forever but he has no idea I love him back." situations. I'll cover both: 1) If you're dating the guy: Who cares? - The motivation for moving in together isn't always that you too are so madly in love that you can't help but be together. Now, if him losing his job means he's not paying any rent at all, than, he's an asshole. Otherwise, he came to the one person he feels like he can trust to help him out. 2) Tough shit, he views you as a friend and nothing more - It's not his fault you harbor this fantasy life with the guy. He asked a friend out for help just like anybody would.

Egnar 19

Monday 23 May 2011 18:15

I tend to think of it as those who can read them are probably more educated and worth talking to.

JennaMarie420 2

Monday 23 May 2011 19:00

well I think they're a tad annoying

Egnar 19

Monday 23 May 2011 19:10

You're not forced to read them, skip over 'em.

Soloman212 28

Monday 23 May 2011 23:30

Well I actually can't read so I have no idea what this thread is about. I'm just a baboon!

pinkspaceboundro 0

Monday 23 May 2011 16:29

I hope you didn't move in!

DocBastard 38

Monday 23 May 2011 16:40

I see no problem here. You should DEFINITELY move in even if he doesn't love you back. Since this guy doesn't work, you pay the rent and now have a live-in maid. He can cook, clean, and do your laundry. Sounds like a good deal to me.